The first time they met, she was a complete mess.
The second time they met, he proposed marriage. Since she was at odds with her family, he thought marrying her would make her easier to control and keep her from causing trouble.
"Captain, the madam's ship leaves today."
"Take care of business first."
Later, he heard the ship had capsized that day, and no one had survived...
"I should have just knocked him out and brought him here back then. Then you wouldn't have to miss him every day."
"No. His country and party mean more to him than his own life. If I forced him to leave, he'd hate me forever. I couldn't bear that."