Chen Xu is a well-known "good husband" in Linchuan City.
When his wife Lin Wan didn't come home for dinner every Wednesday, he let her go; when she dropped a bowl, he kept the chipped one for himself; when she smashed her mother-in-law's birthday banquet in front of the whole family, he went door-to-door to apologize and explain to her: "She's been under a lot of pressure lately."
Everyone in the work unit praised him for his good temper, and the aunts at the family home all said that Lin Wan was lucky. Even the mother-in-law should know that her daughter married a decent man.
But after seven years of marriage, she spoke less and less and became more and more angry. Finally, she ran away from home late one night without even a single explanation.
Everyone asked: What is she doing with such a good husband?
Reader comments
A very profound short article, not an interesting novel, but it reveals a lot of family conflicts.
To put it bluntly, the positions of both parties are correct. Men are socialized and rational, while women need emotional care and recognition of their self-worth. Men and women in the world cannot escape this commonality.
What is wrong is the way the two parties communicate. The two people lacked the necessary "conflict" before: the conflict has been suppressed by both parties. The man hopes not to argue, and the woman also chooses to swallow all her words when a conflict is about to occur. Without conflict, there will be a lack of opportunities to blurt out your innermost thoughts without any worries, and each other will not be able to sense each other's thoughts.
Only by opening your mouth, speaking out, and daring to conflict can you gradually become good at resolving conflicts and controlling the level of conflicts, and enjoy the beauty of unobstructed self-expression.
A very profound short article, not an interesting novel, but it reveals a lot of family conflicts. To put it bluntly, the positions of both parties are correct. Men are socialized and rational, while women need emotional care and recognition of their self-worth. Men and women in the world cannot escape this commonality. What is wrong is the way the two parties communicate. The two people lacked the necessary "conflict" before: the conflict has been suppressed by both parties. The man hopes not to argue, and the woman also chooses to swallow all her words when a conflict is about to occur. Without conflict, there will be a lack of opportunities to blurt out your innermost thoughts without any worries, and each other will not be able to sense each other's thoughts. Only by opening your mouth, speaking out, and daring to conflict can you gradually become good at resolving conflicts and controlling the level of conflicts, and enjoy the beauty of unobstructed self-expression.