Her marriage fails. Her scumbag husband cheats on her, and his mistress shows up with their illegitimate child. She is forced to divorce him, her young son dies tragically, her daughter goes to prison, and she herself meets a violent end in the street.
After being reborn, she changes her strategy. Instead of meeting force with force, she uses gentleness to overcome strength, takes back the initiative, and reclaims everything that belongs to her and her children.
What’s so hard about acting fragile and magnanimous? Anyone can do it.