Do you think the most difficult person to face after divorce is your ex-husband? Wrong. What is even more devastating than my ex-husband are the relatives who pursue and intercept me under the guise of "doing it for your own good". My mother mobilized seven aunts and eight aunts to introduce me to someone, and the first blind date turned out to be my junior high school classmate—the man who wrote me a love letter back then and is now bald and fat and has a ten-year-old son. What surprised me even more was that this farce-like blind date made me see clearly what I really wanted.