When Chen Yu was twenty-nine years old, he met someone who he thought was "just right".
The time was right, the age was right, and for the first time, he seriously thought about settling down. She casually said that she liked a house with a big balcony, and he really looked at the house secretly.
He thought that liking someone meant putting her into his possession little by little.
Until she calmly told him:
"I don't seem to like you as much as you think."
There was no betrayal, no quarrel, it was just that she didn't want to continue.
From then on, Chen Yu went to work, ate, and lived as usual, but never dared to expect anyone easily again.
Half a year later, he met Lin Xia.
They started with an oden radish from a convenience store because work was approaching again. We eat supper together, hold an umbrella together, and wait for each other to get off work. Unknowingly, we care about each other more and more.
But the more Chen Yu liked it, the more afraid he became.
He came closer again and again, and retreated again and again.
Until Lin Xia told him:
"I was not the one who hurt you before, but every time you are afraid now, I am the one who ends up taking the responsibility."
Only then did Chen Yu understand that not daring to start would not prevent loss.
No one can guarantee the future, but you can't push away the person you like today just because you are afraid of losing them one day in the future.
Later, he finally learned:
If you like it today, tell her today.
As for the future——
We'll talk about it on that day.
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