"You can do whatever you want." Chaoshan dialect: You can do whatever you want.
Through the experience of three lives, the protagonist goes through the four stages of questioning Chaoshan women - understanding Chaoshan women - becoming Chaoshan women - transcending Chaoshan women, taking "himself" and becoming "himself".
In the old concept of favoring boys over girls, the contributions of Chaoshan women were usually taken for granted, and their value was always ranked behind men. They have been devout throughout their lives. They have lit countless candles, burned countless incense sticks, and knelt down countless times in front of gods and in ancestral halls. They pray for their families to be safe, for their husbands to have successful careers, and for their children to grow up healthily, but they forget to ask for the courage to live their lives for themselves.
