There is definitely a real part to love, but it is more about everyone's needs, and in the process, they are competing to get more. Even if you like someone when you are young, you may not always show your sincerity when you get along with them. What I want to write about is true love. Don't have any illusions about love. To borrow a sentence I like from a variety show: "Hoping to be loved is the last illusion. Let it go and you will be free."