The highest level of self-discipline for adults is to stop losses in time when the heart beats and stick to responsibilities for life.
All involuntary choices in marriage are essentially greedy; all emotional dilemmas are rooted in evasion of responsibility.
There is no right or wrong in heartbeat, but the maturity of middle-aged people is not about how much they have, but the courage to give up and know how to persevere.
The biggest regret in life is not that you never meet someone stunning, but that you ruined half your life's stability just for the sake of being stunning.
I believe you will eventually understand: Ambiguity is a fleeting firework, and family is a mountain and river rooted in life.