The educated youth couple who joined the queue to settle down in the 1970s should have enjoyed a comfortable life after retirement, but they were troubled by their children's mortgages, their grandchildren's education, and the demolition of their old houses. It turned out that raising children to protect themselves in old age was to protect themselves. This realistic work with laughter, tears, warmth and thorns is dedicated to every Chinese parent who burns his or her life for their children, and also to ourselves who will eventually grow old.
Reader comments
Poor parents in the world, they always love infinitely, give infinitely, and tolerate infinitely in front of their children, but is this really right? Is it a lack of morality or a failure of education that children's selfishness pushes parents into the abyss? I really hope that parents will read this novel and keep their boundaries in mind. The first half of life is struggle and the second half of life is freedom.
The most ordinary family in Shanghai, every character is lifelike, a picture of human life with fireworks! Although it is noisy, it is warm and touching. What I admire the most is the male protagonist! He has a conscience as a human being. Even if his family goes too far, he can face all problems calmly and wisely! This book teaches us all a vivid lesson! The most important thing in raising children is to teach them how to behave. Diligence, thrift and filial piety are never out of date in any era! Bottomless pampering will breed white-eyed wolves, and these have nothing to do with academic qualifications!
Very lifelike
Real family life
Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite
Writes about the common social reality
Don't blame the children for nibbling on you! You are used to it too! Saying no early is truly helping them!
It is a common phenomenon in society to forcibly eat old people.
Portrait of real people's lives
It is a true portrayal of life and is very relevant. The story can serve as a good warning to retirees. The writing is wonderful, the language is vivid, and it's beautiful!
Poor parents in the world, they always love infinitely, give infinitely, and tolerate infinitely in front of their children, but is this really right? Is it a lack of morality or a failure of education that children's selfishness pushes parents into the abyss? I really hope that parents will read this novel and keep their boundaries in mind. The first half of life is struggle and the second half of life is freedom.
The most ordinary family in Shanghai, every character is lifelike, a picture of human life with fireworks! Although it is noisy, it is warm and touching. What I admire the most is the male protagonist! He has a conscience as a human being. Even if his family goes too far, he can face all problems calmly and wisely! This book teaches us all a vivid lesson! The most important thing in raising children is to teach them how to behave. Diligence, thrift and filial piety are never out of date in any era! Bottomless pampering will breed white-eyed wolves, and these have nothing to do with academic qualifications!
Very lifelike
Real family life
Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite
Writes about the common social reality
Don't blame the children for nibbling on you! You are used to it too! Saying no early is truly helping them!
It is a common phenomenon in society to forcibly eat old people.
Portrait of real people's lives
It is a true portrayal of life and is very relevant. The story can serve as a good warning to retirees. The writing is wonderful, the language is vivid, and it's beautiful!