She Is so Proactive, Why Do I Feel Weird?

The first time she came to my house, she brought washed fruits and sat there until late at night. She used my cup, wore my slippers, and dog-eared my books. She said "Do you believe in love at first sight?" I thought this was the beginning of love. Later, she asked me to do laundry, run errands, pay rent, and let me sit on a plastic stool and wait for her to fall asleep. She said that was her temper and that I should be more obedient. She said these were normal. It took me a long time to understand one thing - She was so proactive not because she liked me.