As a national first-level psychological counselor, the most difficult case Jian Sheng has ever handled was just to modify the behavior of a boss with an antisocial personality. Once she traveled through time, she became the desolate queen of the Great Xia Dynasty. Situation be like: Start with a room, three meals a day, and a tyrant husband who may come to "physically save" her at any time. There is no system, no golden fingers, only modern psychological knowledge engraved in DNA. In order to survive, Jian Sheng decided to return to his old business and treat the tyrant as his number one VIP patient. When they met for the first time, the tyrant Xiao Yan was full of hostility: "I don't like your eyes, so I dug them out." Jian Sheng calmly analyzed: This is a typical stress-based aggressive behavior, stemming from a deep sense of insecurity. She lowered her eyes and said in a trembling but clear voice: "Your Majesty is right. After all, only the weak need to look directly to confirm their authority. The strong disdain this." Xiao Yan paused and smiled: "It's interesting." So, the cold palace became the "Royal Psychological Treatment Center". Xiao Yan lost control of his emotions, and she used "non-violent communication" to help him learn to express himself. Xiao Yan is suspicious and jealous, so she designs a "trust game" to rebuild his sense of security. Xiao Yan suffers from insomnia and dreams, so she guides him in "mindfulness meditation" and provides clinical cases adapted from bedtime stories. She used sandbox games to let him deduce his inner thoughts, and used the House Tree Man test to gain insight into his childhood trauma. Gradually, the entire palace discovered that the murderous tyrant had changed. He no longer killed innocent people indiscriminately, and even started reviewing memorials late at night, but... Why did he go to the cold palace every day? !
