Xiao Moqing's restraint and forbearance...
If you have an identity that you cannot overcome, then get to a high position and fight for it yourself...
"Sister Huang, you know best that if you marry me, all my supreme betrothal gifts will be yours alone, and I will buy your dowry for you alone.
Looking at the entire Qing Dynasty and thousands of miles of rivers and mountains, you will never find someone as wholehearted as me. "