At the age of 42, Su Wan was forced by her husband to sign an agreement to leave the house, and received a layoff notice on the same day.
Her husband said she had no income, her son thought she was embarrassed, and her mother-in-law sent the picture of her doing the exercises to relatives, saying she was stimulated.
She took off her wedding ring and bought an old version of "May Three" and second-hand postgraduate entrance examination materials.
While they were waiting for her to bow her head at the dinner table, Su Wan laid out the score sheet, screenshots of relatives, supplementary card deactivation records and marital history page by page.
She had swallowed back all the words she had spoken over the past twenty years.
From that day on, she began to speak for herself.
Reader comments
This is a good book, and I look forward to the subsequent development of the story. Unknowingly, I wrote a long review for the first time. The text is logical, rational, and uses very professional legal terminology. Concentrate your emotions, be restrained, don't be influenced by others, only look at the facts themselves, and don't look at other people's opinions and evaluations.
Countless times, I wanted to rush into the world of the book and beat up my ex-husband, ex-husband's mother, and other third parties to feel wronged for the protagonist. When I see a plot like this, I take a deep breath and quit, not daring to watch it again. The author's description is very calm and restrained, without mentioning grievances. After all, no one recognizes it.
There is no description of love in the book. Indeed, marriage and love are never equated. Marriage is essentially an exchange of interests, weighing the pros and cons. When it comes to divorce, it is a bloody reality and cruel human nature.
What exactly does marriage bring to women? Well worth thinking about. No, I should say, what do you want from women in marriage? Paying without being seen. Women should really be cautious when entering marriage.
By the way, there are study methods throughout the book, detailed methods for sorting out wrong questions, and methods for restarting after interrupted study. Regarding the misunderstandings about learning, the excuses I give are "lazy, procrastination, tired, sleepy, hungry, external interference, etc." And "low energy". I won't go into details, it is really useful.
This book is so worth it, I regret meeting it so late. Very useful, I will try to use it in practice. Although it is difficult to start, take your time, try a little at a time, and be more steady next time, and gradually you will have enough energy to continue to increase the amount. Don't be disturbed by emotions and the outside world. It doesn't matter if you interfere. Record it and find the entrance again. After seeing the records, I will slowly persist.
I also saw the power of mutual help between female characters, which was very heartwarming.
This book is very unique. It is a novel that is rarely seen in Tomato and contains a truly effective methodology. And this methodology can really be used in life and study...
The writing is very immersive and real. It's been a long time since I've seen a story like this without a bloody plot. Although the heroine has many difficulties, she makes progress little by little. Although the story is very cliché, it is very reasonable.
Not only did I watch the fun, but I also learned a lot from it. Including learning interruption reasons, recovery entrance, and simple action recovery. Very practical for me. And I also found that many times it's really not that I don't have time, but that I don't cherish time, make reasonable arrangements, and can't recover in time after being interrupted by short videos on my mobile phone. I also learned to summarize and analyze by recording, which I think is beneficial to my own development and growth. Reading this book feels like following the author's paid course for free [laughing]
It is a very real life problem. Women often forget who they are after entering marriage. The normal life makes people blurred, their feelings are blurred, their boundaries are blurred, and their needs are blurred. Only when the word divorce does not appear can people wake up, awaken to their true position, see the problem clearly, analyze carefully, make decisions, and plan their future.
It's very good, very good to read about the awakening of a middle-aged woman, and there are many ways to learn. I feel that the author has experienced it personally.
After working for more than 20 years, she was controlled by her husband and family chores, and was kidnapped by emotions. Faced with the current situation of leaving the house and leaving the house, she calmly searched for evidence and solutions. It is very rare to be able to persevere and regain your dreams despite the pressure and ridicule of others. There is a different kind of excitement in the fairy tale world full of adults. I give you five points. Thank you so much. No one should give up on yourself at any time. Come on.
Very nice. There are many practical operations. For example, don't write carelessly on the wrong question. For example, not remembering emotions. For example, how to slowly separate from the old environment and habits
In fact, I didn't decide to divorce, I was divorced passively.
It describes the very helpless current situation of family and marriage that many people really face, and the relationship between members is like a mess. But he was able to comb it out strand by strand calmly and with control. Worth 9.6 Points! It has specific guiding significance in handling family affairs, family relationships, parenting, and workplace work!
It's well written, the plot is detailed and compact, and the characters have distinct personalities.
Use methodology and coercion to sort out and reconstruct oneself
This is the reality of many people who take care of the family more after getting married. Can it be more difficult for most people than the heroine? Maybe! In reality, many people need to keep learning, but they often blame their laziness on various chores. Of course life must go on, and if you want to be better, it's time to recognize the main line and move on!
It's so sad, so distressed, so clear-headed, and great. People must first make good decisions before they can survive.
It was the first time I wrote handwritten reading notes on Tomato. The author is extraordinary. I learned a lot about the methods for adults to interrupt and return to learning. I also learned a lot about how to deal with complex situations, develop habits, and specific solutions for sorting out wrong questions. The rating is too low, perhaps because the wording is too rigorous and professional, setting a threshold for readers.
Calm author, calm protagonist, calmly gives people strength [Like][Like][Like]
It's so well written, it captures the heroine's frustration.
It's worth reading, it's a novel that will make people learn and grow.
It's very good. It teaches women to be calm, self-disciplined and rational. It's worth reading.
I thought it was pretty good when I first read it, but it turned out that it was serialized and more updates were needed. The more I read it, the more wordy it became. There were too many repetitive parts.
The writing is very relevant to life, and the content of the story is also novel. Very well written
Come on, the author is great! He has written about the cruelty of reality. Some marriages are scarier than this story. Women must be calm, be themselves, and not prove themselves or engage in unnecessary arguments.
The rating is too low. Sometimes in life you really can't get emotional if you want to get things done. I think the author is really great! It teaches us how to start over in the midst of tedious things.
A down-to-earth, practical novel that is worth reading. This is the first time I have seen a novel with this theme.
Why is the score so low? It's such a beautiful book. I would like to rate 9.9 Points! ! ! The 0.1 Points less is because the author is afraid of being too proud.
It's so true, life is such a mess, with one interference after another. Be as serious as Su Wan and set your own rules and boundaries.
No matter what, live your life! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
Learned, many details are worth learning
It's so difficult for a woman who doesn't have a job in marriage. The novel is too realistic and heavy!
The author provides a problem-solving template for women who are about to be divorced. It is highly operable!
I usually listen to books while working, but I read this one seriously. I want to try the method in the book.
The logic is clear, the middle-aged stay-at-home lady's desperate counterattack against her scheming husband!
This book is not a good read, but it is very special. Very hard,
This is a good book, and I look forward to the subsequent development of the story. Unknowingly, I wrote a long review for the first time. The text is logical, rational, and uses very professional legal terminology. Concentrate your emotions, be restrained, don't be influenced by others, only look at the facts themselves, and don't look at other people's opinions and evaluations. Countless times, I wanted to rush into the world of the book and beat up my ex-husband, ex-husband's mother, and other third parties to feel wronged for the protagonist. When I see a plot like this, I take a deep breath and quit, not daring to watch it again. The author's description is very calm and restrained, without mentioning grievances. After all, no one recognizes it. There is no description of love in the book. Indeed, marriage and love are never equated. Marriage is essentially an exchange of interests, weighing the pros and cons. When it comes to divorce, it is a bloody reality and cruel human nature. What exactly does marriage bring to women? Well worth thinking about. No, I should say, what do you want from women in marriage? Paying without being seen. Women should really be cautious when entering marriage. By the way, there are study methods throughout the book, detailed methods for sorting out wrong questions, and methods for restarting after interrupted study. Regarding the misunderstandings about learning, the excuses I give are "lazy, procrastination, tired, sleepy, hungry, external interference, etc." And "low energy". I won't go into details, it is really useful. This book is so worth it, I regret meeting it so late. Very useful, I will try to use it in practice. Although it is difficult to start, take your time, try a little at a time, and be more steady next time, and gradually you will have enough energy to continue to increase the amount. Don't be disturbed by emotions and the outside world. It doesn't matter if you interfere. Record it and find the entrance again. After seeing the records, I will slowly persist. I also saw the power of mutual help between female characters, which was very heartwarming.
This book is very unique. It is a novel that is rarely seen in Tomato and contains a truly effective methodology. And this methodology can really be used in life and study...
The writing is very immersive and real. It's been a long time since I've seen a story like this without a bloody plot. Although the heroine has many difficulties, she makes progress little by little. Although the story is very cliché, it is very reasonable.
Not only did I watch the fun, but I also learned a lot from it. Including learning interruption reasons, recovery entrance, and simple action recovery. Very practical for me. And I also found that many times it's really not that I don't have time, but that I don't cherish time, make reasonable arrangements, and can't recover in time after being interrupted by short videos on my mobile phone. I also learned to summarize and analyze by recording, which I think is beneficial to my own development and growth. Reading this book feels like following the author's paid course for free [laughing]
It is a very real life problem. Women often forget who they are after entering marriage. The normal life makes people blurred, their feelings are blurred, their boundaries are blurred, and their needs are blurred. Only when the word divorce does not appear can people wake up, awaken to their true position, see the problem clearly, analyze carefully, make decisions, and plan their future.
It's very good, very good to read about the awakening of a middle-aged woman, and there are many ways to learn. I feel that the author has experienced it personally.
After working for more than 20 years, she was controlled by her husband and family chores, and was kidnapped by emotions. Faced with the current situation of leaving the house and leaving the house, she calmly searched for evidence and solutions. It is very rare to be able to persevere and regain your dreams despite the pressure and ridicule of others. There is a different kind of excitement in the fairy tale world full of adults. I give you five points. Thank you so much. No one should give up on yourself at any time. Come on.
Very nice. There are many practical operations. For example, don't write carelessly on the wrong question. For example, not remembering emotions. For example, how to slowly separate from the old environment and habits
In fact, I didn't decide to divorce, I was divorced passively.
It describes the very helpless current situation of family and marriage that many people really face, and the relationship between members is like a mess. But he was able to comb it out strand by strand calmly and with control. Worth 9.6 Points! It has specific guiding significance in handling family affairs, family relationships, parenting, and workplace work!
It's well written, the plot is detailed and compact, and the characters have distinct personalities.
Use methodology and coercion to sort out and reconstruct oneself
This is the reality of many people who take care of the family more after getting married. Can it be more difficult for most people than the heroine? Maybe! In reality, many people need to keep learning, but they often blame their laziness on various chores. Of course life must go on, and if you want to be better, it's time to recognize the main line and move on!
It's so sad, so distressed, so clear-headed, and great. People must first make good decisions before they can survive.
It was the first time I wrote handwritten reading notes on Tomato. The author is extraordinary. I learned a lot about the methods for adults to interrupt and return to learning. I also learned a lot about how to deal with complex situations, develop habits, and specific solutions for sorting out wrong questions. The rating is too low, perhaps because the wording is too rigorous and professional, setting a threshold for readers.
Calm author, calm protagonist, calmly gives people strength [Like][Like][Like]
It's so well written, it captures the heroine's frustration.
It's worth reading, it's a novel that will make people learn and grow.
It's very good. It teaches women to be calm, self-disciplined and rational. It's worth reading. I thought it was pretty good when I first read it, but it turned out that it was serialized and more updates were needed. The more I read it, the more wordy it became. There were too many repetitive parts.
The writing is very relevant to life, and the content of the story is also novel. Very well written
Come on, the author is great! He has written about the cruelty of reality. Some marriages are scarier than this story. Women must be calm, be themselves, and not prove themselves or engage in unnecessary arguments. The rating is too low. Sometimes in life you really can't get emotional if you want to get things done. I think the author is really great! It teaches us how to start over in the midst of tedious things.
A down-to-earth, practical novel that is worth reading. This is the first time I have seen a novel with this theme. Why is the score so low? It's such a beautiful book. I would like to rate 9.9 Points! ! ! The 0.1 Points less is because the author is afraid of being too proud.
It's so true, life is such a mess, with one interference after another. Be as serious as Su Wan and set your own rules and boundaries.
No matter what, live your life! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
Learned, many details are worth learning
It's so difficult for a woman who doesn't have a job in marriage. The novel is too realistic and heavy!
The author provides a problem-solving template for women who are about to be divorced. It is highly operable!
I usually listen to books while working, but I read this one seriously. I want to try the method in the book.
The logic is clear, the middle-aged stay-at-home lady's desperate counterattack against her scheming husband!
This book is not a good read, but it is very special. Very hard,