At forty-two, Su Wan was pressured by her husband to sign an agreement leaving her with nothing. That same day, she received a layoff notice.
Her husband said she had no income, her son thought she was an embarrassment, and her mother-in-law posted a photo of her studying in the relatives’ group chat, claiming she’d suffered a breakdown.
She took off her wedding ring and bought an old edition of the Wu San exam-prep books and some secondhand graduate-school entrance materials.
As they waited for her to give in at the dinner table, Su Wan laid out her score estimate, screenshots from the relatives’ group chat, records showing her supplementary card had been disabled, and the account statements from their marriage, one page at a time.
For twenty years, she had swallowed every word.
From that day on, she began speaking up for herself.
This is a good book, and I look forward to the subsequent development of the story. Unknowingly, I wrote a long review for the first time. The text is logical, rational, and uses very professional legal terminology. Concentrate your emotions, be restrained, don't be influenced by others, only look at the facts themselves, and don't look at other people's opinions and evaluations. Countless times, I wanted to rush into the world of the book and beat up my ex-husband, ex-husband's mother, and other third parties to feel wronged for the protagonist. When I see a plot like this, I take a deep breath and quit, not daring to watch it again. The author's description is very calm and restrained, without mentioning grievances. After all, no one recognizes it. There is no description of love in the book. Indeed, marriage and love are never equated. Marriage is essentially an exchange of interests, weighing the pros and cons. When it comes to divorce, it is a bloody reality and cruel human nature. What exactly does marriage bring to women? Well worth thinking about. No, I should say, what do you want from women in marriage? Paying without being seen. Women should really be cautious when entering marriage. By the way, there are study methods throughout the book, detailed methods for sorting out wrong questions, and methods for restarting after interrupted study. Regarding the misunderstandings about learning, the excuses I give are "lazy, procrastination, tired, sleepy, hungry, external interference, etc." And "low energy". I won't go into details, it is really useful. This book is so worth it, I regret meeting it so late. Very useful, I will try to use it in practice. Although it is difficult to start, take your time, try a little at a time, and be more steady next time, and gradually you will have enough energy to continue to increase the amount. Don't be disturbed by emotions and the outside world. It doesn't matter if you interfere. Record it and find the entrance again. After seeing the records, I will slowly persist. I also saw the power of mutual help between female characters, which was very heartwarming.
This book is very unique. It is a novel that is rarely seen in Tomato and contains a truly effective methodology. And this methodology can really be used in life and study...
The writing is very immersive and real. It's been a long time since I've seen a story like this without a bloody plot. Although the heroine has many difficulties, she makes progress little by little. Although the story is very cliché, it is very reasonable.
Not only did I watch the fun, but I also learned a lot from it. Including learning interruption reasons, recovery entrance, and simple action recovery. Very practical for me. And I also found that many times it's really not that I don't have time, but that I don't cherish time, make reasonable arrangements, and can't recover in time after being interrupted by short videos on my mobile phone. I also learned to summarize and analyze by recording, which I think is beneficial to my own development and growth. Reading this book feels like following the author's paid course for free 🤭
It is a very real life problem. Women often forget who they are after entering marriage. The normal life makes people blurred, their feelings are blurred, their boundaries are blurred, and their needs are blurred. Only when the word divorce does not appear can people wake up, awaken to their true position, see the problem clearly, analyze carefully, make decisions, and plan their future.
It's very good, very good to read about the awakening of a middle-aged woman, and there are many ways to learn. I feel that the author has experienced it personally.
After working for more than 20 years, she was controlled by her husband and family chores, and was kidnapped by emotions. Faced with the current situation of leaving the house and leaving the house, she calmly searched for evidence and solutions. It is very rare to be able to persevere and regain your dreams despite the pressure and ridicule of others. There is a different kind of excitement in the fairy tale world full of adults. I give you five points. Thank you so much. No one should give up on yourself at any time. Come on.
Very nice. There are many practical operations. For example, don't write carelessly on the wrong question. For example, not remembering emotions. For example, how to slowly separate from the old environment and habits
It describes the very helpless current situation of family and marriage that many people really face, and the relationship between members is like a mess. But he was able to comb it out strand by strand calmly and with control. Worth 9.6 Points! It has specific guiding significance in handling family affairs, family relationships, parenting, and workplace work!
It's well written, the plot is detailed and compact, and the characters have distinct personalities.