When I think about it, I often suspect that I must have wiped out my husband's entire family in my previous life, and that in this life I have traveled thousands of miles to marry and pay off my debts day after day.
My husband works outside all year round and I can't see her all year round. In memory of my daughter-in-law, she is actually left alone.
The chauvinistic father-in-law is always oppressive, and the bitter and mean mother-in-law is critical of everything.
My brother and sister-in-law have been married for many years and are unable to conceive a child, so they become very angry all the time.
The sister-in-law is even more outrageous. She married a gambler in her first marriage, and she married a man in her second and third marriages but still has no home. She stays at home with her husband and children, living and eating for free.
A house full of weirdos, with no husband to support her and no natal family to rely on.
This long-distance marriage is not happiness, it is a reminder of a debt that will never be paid off in a lifetime!