The Tide Has Bullied Me for Many Years

If you only look at the surface, it looks like a high-concentration sadomasochism plot; but as you follow the characters, you will find that there is deep growth hidden inside. Zhou Qiming did not escape responsibility just because time passed. Legal sanctions many years later put the most necessary finishing touch on Lin's father's old case. It is not that the male protagonist uses his capital to seek revenge in private, nor is it that the female protagonist ends with a word of relief, but rather lets the evidence and the law speak for themselves. The most relieving part of this ending is that it acknowledges that justice may be late, but being late does not mean it may not come. Lin Bailan could finally stand in front of her father's name and say, the truth has been seen, you did not die silently. The author keeps the focus very stable, and does not turn the judicial process into a universal plug-in. Instead, the reporter's investigation, recording evidence, police advancement and character testimony jointly spell out the result, and the group portraits all play a role. For readers who like villains to pay a clear price but don't want to see the protagonist's illegal revenge, this line is very enjoyable. Being able to express true feelings in a gory setting and express sweetness in a measured way is enough for me to recommend it to my book friends. Many similar themes tend to lose the main thread in the second half, but this one has been centered around choice, responsibility and staying. Come on! ! !

"The Tide Has Bullied Me for Years" begins with "I was knocked unconscious by a volleyball when I jumped into the sea to die", which is full of the ultimate sense of fate and BE aesthetics. The male protagonist, Han Yiran, appears to be the school sweetheart on the high mountain, but in fact he is a paranoid hunter who keeps pace with every step. The "well-planned love at first sight" seven years ago had both the warmth of redemption and the hidden edge of possessiveness. The heroine Lin Bailan's sense of fragmentation and self-defeating inner monologue make the growth line delicate and moving. Chasing his wife in the crematorium after the reunion is not only an emotional explosion, but also the final chapter of self-redemption for the two.

If you only look at the surface, it looks like a high-concentration sadomasochism plot; but as you follow the characters, you will find that there is deep growth hidden inside. I was originally worried that the male protagonist going abroad would be written as a cliché and misunderstood, but it turned out that it felt more like powerlessness here. Han Yiran was coerced by his family and left Haicheng, while Lin Bailan was left alone to digest the feeling of being left behind without any explanation. Neither of them really won. Many years later, he came back after becoming famous. The most cruel thing was not to see Zhou Xuyan next to her, but to find that she had learned to manage her own trust. The so-called snatching back does not mean that the little girl left behind has been able to hide her emotions tightly. This kind of belated growth is the most complete crematorium for chasing his wife for Han Yiran. The low profile of the male protagonist in the later stage is therefore very convincing. He didn't suddenly fall in love, but he was repaying the price of not making a choice when he was a teenager. The more shameless he was, the more he regretted the parting. Readers who like to watch the male protagonist belatedly realize the consequences and make crazy compensations as an adult, this book will make you tortured and unable to stop. Being able to express true feelings in a gory setting and express sweetness in a measured way is enough for me to recommend it to my book friends.

It is really difficult to remain indifferent after reading this. The regrets, secrets and grievances buried in the previous article are all revealed at once. Lin Bailan started making jewelry again, not just to open a company, but to find herself who was suppressed by family tragedy and emotional trauma. She started step by step from design drafts, material selection, and customer communication. The reputation of the studio was not created by the male protagonist spending money. When foreign awards fell into her hands one after another, I really felt proud that "my daughter has finally made it through." Her works carry images such as ocean tides, old auditoriums, and lost and found images. The career line and the emotional line echo each other, giving a sense of completeness. The most praiseworthy thing is that her success involves a process, professional details, and failures and choices. Han Yiran provides resources, but the person who determines the value of the work is always Lin Bailan herself. Readers who like the heroine to have a career, aesthetics, and independent growth arc will definitely fall in love with the second half. To me, this is the best state of romance: even if the heart is broken, the characters have not lost their dignity and logic. In addition to the high-energy plot, the small details of handing out water, waiting for news, and silent companionship are the easiest to poke people.

After the truth of the old case was revealed, Lin Bailan's feelings for Han Yiran did not automatically cover the damage. She will be shaken and distressed, but she still needs time to confirm whether she can re-establish a relationship with a family related to her father's tragedy. I especially liked that she wasn't kidnapped by "he's in pain too". Han Yiran's pain is understandable, but Lin Bailan's boundaries are also inviolable. Her hesitation is not pretentious, but responsible for her father and her own life. The most mature part of this sadistic relationship is that both parties admit that love cannot offset responsibility. Only when the truth is told, an apology truly occurs, and actions are consistently fulfilled can their reconciliation be anything other than a betrayal of trauma. I don't like the heroine being coaxed back with a few words. Readers who care about emotional logic will praise Lin Bailan's sobriety. Being able to express true feelings in a gory setting and express parting in a measured way is enough for me to recommend it to my book friends. Many similar themes tend to lose the main thread in the second half, but this one has been centered around choice, responsibility and staying. I just finished reading it, it's very well written.

The most interesting thing about this book for me is that there is an emotional basis behind each happy point, and it doesn't make people feel that it is just for excitement. Han Yiran returned to the seaside city to look for Lin Bailan, only to find that she had entered a relationship that was about to lead to marriage. This setting made the reunion full of tension. The two of them spoke very politely, but underneath every polite word there was an old feeling that was still lingering. The most heartwarming thing is that they are obviously talking about reality, but their eyes keep speaking for their boyhood. Han Yiran didn't dare to force her, and Lin Bailan didn't dare to admit that she would still waver. The dignity of an adult had become the thinnest layer of paper that could be blown apart by the sea breeze at any time. The author did not rush for the two to get back together, but let old cases, engagements, public opinion and family squeeze their feelings layer by layer. Every time you get close, you have to pay a price, so the hugs and kisses that follow are not sugar-giving tasks, but the real emotional breakthrough. Readers who like tug-of-war, restrained reunions, and adult ambiguity will be struck by this passage. Much like the recently popular American drama "Beyond Campus", the male protagonist is restrained, which is what makes him truly charming. Very well written

After finishing the first few chapters, my strongest feeling is: this is not a story that only relies on setting to catch people, but the more details it has, the more it has stamina. In the opening chapter, Lin Bailan stood on the edge of despair, and Han Yiran knocked her unconscious with a volleyball. This encounter was as absurd as a joke, but cruel and realistic. When she woke up, what she remembered was not the pain, but the person who forcefully pulled her back from the thought of death. What pricked me the most was that this volleyball turned out to be like a code left by fate: he saved her once when she was a teenager, and once again pulled her back from public opinion, old cases and self-doubt as an adult. Salvation is not about a hero appearing in the light, but someone telling you to "survive first" in the clumsiest way!

It is really difficult to remain indifferent after reading this. The regrets, secrets and love buried in the previous article are all revealed at once. The marriage contract between Lin Bailan and Zhou Xuyan adds the most realistic obstacle to the reunion of this old love. Han Yiran came back too late and had no right to ask her to wait where she was; Lin Bailan was not someone who could overturn years of life with just "I still love you." The real thing is that Han Yiran did not use his identity as the boss to rob her, but first found out the cause of her father's death, assumed the responsibility of the Han family, and then won her trust little by little. The so-called snatching back does not mean snatching ownership, but putting the right of choice back into Lin Bailan's hands. The more Zhou Xuyan loses control in the later stage, the more he highlights Han Yiran's growth. One wants to use public opinion to trap her back, and the other is willing to let go of the control of the family business and support her. This contrast makes the heroine's final choice very powerful. Readers who don't like mindless robbery, but like high-intensity emotional Shura fields, can read it with confidence. To me, this is the best state of romance: although the heart is full of hatred, the characters have not lost their dignity and logic. In addition to the high-energy plot, the small details of handing out water, waiting for news, and silent companionship are the easiest to poke people. Beautifully written! ! !

I read this part twice because it contains both the heartbeat of romance and the weight of reality that adults must face. Han Moran forced his father to face up to the old case and formally apologized to Lin Bailan and Zhou Man. There was no exaggeration in this scene, nor was there a single sentence to wash away the hurt caused over the years. The more restrained you are, the more you see a strong elder finally admitting that he was wrong. The best thing is that Han Moran didn't stand in the middle and fight with each other. He clearly chose Lin Bailan, and also clearly told his father: family dignity cannot be based on the victim shutting up. The true maturity of this man is not how much money he earns, but his courage to tear down the privileges that protect him. It is reasonable for the hatred to end temporarily after apologizing. Lin Bailan does not have to spend the rest of her life in revenge. She can continue to pursue accountability, but she also has the right to turn her energy back to her career and life. It is worth following for readers who like to see boundary forgiveness, adults taking responsibility, and family power being backlashed. I especially like that the story doesn't put a single word of "love" over truth, responsibility, and respect, which is more believable than sweetness. Very well written!

The most outstanding thing about this book is the three-dimensional and non-flat character creation of the male and female protagonists. The female protagonist, Lin Bailan, is a cold academic master with a sense of brokenness. She lost her father in her early years and was estranged from her stepmother. She has been trapped by smiling depression all year round. She looks calm and gentle on the outside, but her heart is full of inferiority and pain. The "inner barrage" setting specially designed by the author is the finishing touch. Without a long paragraph of direct complaints, readers can intuitively get a glimpse of her repressed and sensitive spiritual world. She is fragile but unwilling to admit defeat. She struggles to grow into an independent jewelry designer. The character's growth line is complete and healing, and she is not a tool waiting for redemption. Very well written, the type I like!

The most interesting thing about this book for me is that there is an emotional basis behind each happy point, and it doesn't make people feel that it is just for excitement. After Zhou Qiming was sanctioned and Han's father formally apologized, the novel did not continue to rely on old grudges to endlessly drag on, but let Lin Bailan turn the focus of her life back to jewelry design. This turn made me feel like she was finally moving on from her victimhood. Instead of forgetting her father, she decided to continue living with her works. Every award, every client, every piece of jewelry tells the past: You tried to destroy me, but I still have my name. The transition from suspense and accountability to entrepreneurial growth is natural, and it makes the second half sweet but not empty. The male and female protagonists no longer only talk about love but not career, but discuss brands, overseas markets, time allocation and how to live together. Readers who like the story to be clear in the first part and truly enter into growth and healing after the torture will find it more and more relaxing in the second half. After reading it, you will feel that all the pain is not wasted, and they eventually become the characters' steps towards happiness. The text has the unique moist feeling of seaside stories, and the emotions come up layer by layer, making it easy for readers to relate to it.

Originally I was only attracted by the plot synopsis, but after actually reading it, I was firmly attracted by the choices of the characters at critical moments. After traveling overseas for a long time, the two finally met, and Han Yiran almost rushed over and hugged Lin Bailan. There were no gorgeous lines at that moment, only a long time of not letting go. The readers could fully feel how much longing they had suppressed in their bodies. The most heartwarming thing was that Lin Bailan froze at first, and then took the initiative to hug back. The author is very good at leaving blank space in handling intimate scenes, and the passion comes from emotion rather than explicit description. Kisses, hugs and breathing all took over the long separation ahead. So sweet and heavy. Readers who like long-awaited reunions, intimate scenes with body language and emotional outbursts will be excited here. When I catch up to this point, I not only think about them being together, but also want to see how they will live every day in the future. The author controls the rhythm very steadily. After the emotion reaches its peak, he will give the readers a breath in time, and then use new contradictions to stir up the desire for more. Very well written

This paragraph is indeed worthy of serious discussion. Lin Bailan's jewelry works have won awards abroad many times. This setting is very cool, but what touches me even more is the meaning behind the awards. She was once questioned about her professionalism by public opinion and denied her value by old relationships. Now her work answers the question for her. Every time she stands on the overseas podium, Han Yiran is not the "behind-the-scenes financier" stealing the spotlight, but watching her shine in the crowd. There is restraint in that kind of pride, as if saying: I love you, so I am willing to let the world see you first. Career excitement and emotional desserts are well blended. The male protagonist's support is not to turn her into an accessory, but to help her resolve resistance and leave the stage to her completely. For readers who love to watch powerful romances where the heroine wins applause for her professionalism, this part is really exciting. This kind of writing method that balances emotional release and character growth is very suitable for following chapter after chapter. It not only satisfies the reversal and slap in the face that Tomato readers love to see, but also retains the patience that character relationships need to be slowly repaired. The author controls the rhythm very steadily. After the emotion reaches its peak, he will give the readers a breath in time, and then use new contradictions to stir up the desire for more.

When Han Yiran confirmed that his father had participated in putting pressure on Lin's father, he faced the cruelest choice: love and blood were no longer just issues of position, but to uncover the stain on the family with his own hands. He did not excuse himself by saying "that was a matter of the previous generation", nor did he ask Lin Bailan to lower her bottom line just because she loved him. He accompanied her to find evidence, forced her father to apologize, and was even prepared to lose her. This is more proof of love than any luxury car and diamond ring. The charm of the male protagonist is upgraded here. When he was a teenager, he used a volleyball to save her, which was instinctive; as an adult, he stood by her despite family pressure, which was a conscious choice. A person's deep affection will ultimately bear the consequences. If you like a male protagonist who has principles, takes action, and doesn't rely on words to prove his love, this book is really worth it. The whole line can not only provide the refreshing feeling of catching up on updates, but also make people have long-term empathy with the characters, so it is highly recommended. I especially like that the story doesn't let a single word of "love" override truth, responsibility, and respect, which makes the sweetness more believable.

I rarely write a long review of a single line in a long novel, but this paragraph is indeed worthy of serious and extensive discussion. Xu Mengdie graduated from the Journalism Department of Haicheng University and worked step by step from reporter to editor-in-chief at a local TV station. Her life trajectory is so complete that she could write a book of her own. She helped Lin Bailan not only because "my best friend must save the day", but because her professional ability and value choices supported her in doing so. In daily life, she provides authentic clues and verifies facts. During Internet violence, she determines the rhythm of public opinion, sticks to the bottom line of reporting, and is always awake at critical moments. What I like most is her sense of reliability that "I can hold you and cry, but after crying we will sort out the evidence." The author describes female friendship with an adult quality. It is not about sticking together every day, but when the other person's life collapses, he can use his expertise to pull her out of the ruins. Readers who like high-quality bestie lines, female mutual support, and career-oriented supporting roles, Xu Mengdie will definitely become your favorite. This kind of writing method that balances emotional release and character growth is very suitable for following chapter after chapter. It not only satisfies the reversal and slap in the face that Tomato readers love to see, but also retains the patience that character relationships need to be slowly repaired.

I highly recommend this one because it has the heartbeat of romance but also the weight of reality that adults must face. I like the texture of the campus line in the early stage the most: the volleyball court, the seaside, the love that teenagers dare not tell, and the process of Lin Bailan being amused by Han Yiran little by little. That kind of youthfulness is not industrial saccharine, but it can make people's hearts beat faster even when walking side by side. So it was particularly painful when the Han family suddenly went abroad. The two people were in love openly and secretly, but before they could even say a lot of words, reality ruthlessly tore them apart. It's not that he doesn't love, but that the young man simply doesn't have the ability to resist his family. This kind of "one step away" is more disappointing than falling out of love directly. The author is very good at using sweetness in the front and abuse in the back to create a gap. The brighter the sweetness in the front, the more specific the gap in the back is. When we meet again after many years, one look can bring out all the regrets from the past, and the emotional connection is very smooth. Readers who like the setting of youthful regrets, reunion after a long separation and "white moonlight never fades" are recommended to follow the complete line directly. The whole line can not only provide the refreshing feeling of catching up on updates, but also make people have long-term empathy with the characters, so it is highly recommended. Very nice! !

I read this part twice because it contains both the heartbeat of romance and the reality that adults must face. The two people truly become lovers in the sense of husband and wife after reuniting after a long separation. This scene is not exciting for the sake of excitement. All the previous misses, doubts, and restraints were caught up in tenderness that night. What poked me the most was that Lin Bailan was no longer afraid of waking up in an empty room, and Han Yiran confirmed her wishes over and over again. Intimacy is not possession, but two injured people telling each other with their bodies: I am here and I will not disappear suddenly. The author has controlled the scale very well, and the atmosphere, touch, and emotion are full without destroying the characters' sense of respect. A truly great sex scene is never just a list of moves, but a progression of the relationship. Readers who like high sweetness and high tension, but care more about emotional logic and mutual respect, will find this book well worth it. It's great to watch and the plot doesn't drag on!

I rarely write a long review of a single line in a novel, but this paragraph is indeed worthy of serious discussion. "The Tide Has Bullied Me for Many Years" strings together campus redemption, old family cases, public opinion counterattacks, career growth, reunion and post-marriage comedy. It has a large amount of information but a clear main line. I cried over the death of Lin Bailan's father and the separation of the male and female protagonists as teenagers. I was also happy that Zhou Xuyan was exposed and the rumors were reversed. I was also so sweet that I laughed out loud at the proposal, wedding and double delivery room in the Qi'an Auditorium. The most recommendable thing is that the characters are always growing: Lin Bailan learns to live for herself, Han Yiran learns to take responsibility and stay, and Xu Mengdie uses his professionalism and friendship to guard the truth. If you want to read a long novel with strong emotions, a strong sense of catharsis, a happy ending, and a sense of joy, you can really go straight from the first chapter. All the pain is not wasted, they eventually become steps to happiness. Very well written! Very beautiful

I just finished reading, it's a great story about the reunion between campus and city! The story of a volleyball match, a seven-year separation, the male protagonist returning to his country to get married in public, the broken female protagonist being pulled between the paranoid school girl, and the combination of BE aesthetics and the crematorium of chasing his wife.

It combines campus youth and adult CEO lines, and Bai Yueguang BE aesthetics runs through the whole story. The heroine breaks away from the trauma of her original family and becomes a jewelry designer. The love-hate relationship between the male and female protagonists is delicate and not bloody. I like the story of reunion after a long absence, and it can be read in a book. Very pretty (｡･ω･｡)ﾉ♡

After chasing this section, my strongest feeling is: this is not a story that only relies on setting to catch people, but the more details I look at, the more powerful it becomes. Xu Mengdie did not cheat all the way because her father was the director of the Public Security Bureau. She started as a grassroots reporter, went to the scene, polished manuscripts, took risks in reporting, and finally took the position of editor-in-chief. This line makes her more believable when she helps Lin Bailan. What shines most about her is that she knows the boundaries of power but does not cross them, avoiding the sense of suspension of "fighting for everything". When the main storyline is heart-wrenchingly tortured, Xu Mengdie's growth provides another kind of comfort: ordinary girls who practice their profession to the extreme can become a real shield when their friends need it. Readers who like career growth, media industry elements, and sober heroines should not skip her chapter. It is not a sugar quitting knife that will be forgotten after reading it, but it will make people go back and re-understand many of the previous details. What's even more rare is that the relevant supporting characters don't appear temporarily to promote the plot. Everyone's position and consequences can be found in the previous article.

It's a bit sadistic and slightly sweet, the plot is very interesting, and I still have more to say [I learned it] Good-looking, love watching [send heartfelt]

Rare and top-notch writing, the descriptions are extremely delicate, especially the characterizations are grounded, the mood transitions are extremely smooth, and the subtle movements are very good.

This romance about chasing a wife in the crematorium breaks out of the clichéd sweet pet framework, and is based on the white moonlight BE aesthetics, giving it a full sense of atmosphere. The beginning of the story is very impactful. When the female protagonist jumps into the sea in despair, the male protagonist stops her with a volleyball, defining this embarrassing encounter as love at first sight that belongs exclusively to him, and the sense of fateful pull is instantly felt.

Wonderful, timeless, I want to watch it again, five-star support!

Thank you to the author, he wrote it very well.

I haven't seen such a wonderful novel in a long time. It's so well written.

I haven't seen such a wonderful novel in a long time. I highly recommend it.

The plot is good, the reunion plot is full of tension, I like it

The author's writing is so good, and his narrative style is so spot on.