If the Heart Has No Light, It Will Become Yang by Itself

Girls have no home. They are like dandelions. When they fall into a fat place, they will grow in the wind. When they fall into a thin place, they will suffer for a lifetime. Marriage is not a salvation. Home is not a safe haven. Only you are your own shelter. You are your own safe haven... I grew up in a family that favored boys over girls. I left home in the third year of junior high and wandered thousands of miles with no one to love me, no one to love me, no one to hold an umbrella, and no one to support me. Later, I met a family. They brought me meals, picked me up from get off work, and treated me tenderly. I thought that was salvation, and I married regardless of my own safety. I take care of my family with all my heart, give birth to children, be filial to my parents-in-law, and regard my marriage as my entire glory. But he changed his mind, came home late, and had affairs with others. Finally, he pushed me down and said: Just wait for the divorce. He left home for two years without returning, asking questions, or paying a penny. I waited, cried, and humiliated myself, and finally I took the initiative to file for divorce. 35 Years old, with nothing, a child, and starting all over again. Only along the way did I understand: No one gives me warmth, so I give it to myself; If no one gives me light, I will be the sun myself; Without a backer, I will live my life as my own backer. If there is no light in the heart, it will become Yang by itself. In this life, don't be dependent, don't give in, don't be humble. I have endured all the hardships, and finally, I live only for myself.