When we got married, my mother-in-law said, "You will be my daughter from now on," and she believed it! She thought that as long as she was kind enough, patient enough, and dedicated enough, she would be able to gain respect and recognition.
She was wrong. After ten years of marriage, she learned to act based on her mother-in-law's face, learned to swallow all her grievances, and learned to cry silently in the bathroom late at night. She handed over her salary card, quit her job, and lived her life as a nameless person - just "Chen Ming's wife", just "the child's mother", just "that daughter-in-law".
Until the diagnosis of grade 3 breast nodules woke her up like a slap in the face.
The doctor said: "Have you been depressed for too long?"
When she got home that day, her mother-in-law didn't ask her what the test results were. Instead, she asked her to wash a basin of dirty clothes in the bathroom.
She looked down at the basin of clothes and suddenly smiled.
From that day on, she began to live for herself.
Taking exams, working hard for a job, saving for a down payment, and buying a house. In five years, she went from an accountant with a monthly salary of 4,500 to a director with an annual salary of 500,000.
And when her value was finally seen and everyone in her husband's family began to respect her, she stood in the house she bought, looking at the lights of thousands of houses outside the window, and felt ironic.
It turns out that in this world, the only one you can always rely on is yourself.
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After reading this book, I cried in bed for half an hour. I understand the heroine's suffocating feeling of "living as someone else's appendage" - when she got married, she believed her mother-in-law's words to "treat you as her own daughter", quit her job and handed over her salary for the sake of the family, cried silently in the bathroom late at night, endured and sacrificed without any bottom line, and finally Suffering from breast nodules due to depression, and being completely shattered by her mother-in-law's indifference, these tiny, pyrotechnic details accurately reproduce the self-sacrifice of countless married women, living their lives as "Chen Ming's wife" and "mother of their children", except that they are not themselves.
The diagnosis of grade 3 breast nodules was like a slap in the face that woke her up. I instantly felt empathy and felt numb all over. How many women only wake up after their bodies turn on the red light and their hearts are completely broken by their husbands: It turns out that it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone else. The heroine spent five years taking exams, working hard, and buying a house. She went from being an accountant with a monthly salary of 4,500 yuan to a director with an annual salary of 500,000 yuan. This was not a trick in a cool novel, but the result of countless late nights of gritted teeth and perseverance.
What struck me the most was the sentence at the end, "The only one you can always rely on is yourself." This book does not teach us to hate marriage or our in-laws, but it teaches us never to lose ourselves for anyone. If you are also wronged in your marriage and suffering from internal strife in your family, you must read this book. It will give you the courage to stand up again.
This article has written about the silence and collapse of many women in marriage. After several years of marriage, she gave all her tenderness and dedication to her family, endured all grievances, hid all sadness, and lived like a shadow of herself. She thought that sincerity could be replaced by sincerity. It was not until a medical certificate and a cold instruction that she saw clearly: some dedication was always self-motivated, without hysteria or blame. People just turned around silently, spent five years to counterattack and turn around, and lived to become their own backers. The most sober truth in the world is just one sentence: After the heartache, we have made a self-transcendence and counterattacked from ordinary accountants to strong men in the workplace. It turns out that the most painful thing is not the injury, but finally understanding that the most solid backer for a woman in this life is always herself. When she became strong, her husband's family began to learn to respect her. It turns out that respect is never gained by tolerance, but by strength. When you are weak, you are surrounded by bad people; when you are strong, the whole world is kind to you.
This article is an in-depth novel that makes girls empathize. Never be fooled by men's sweet words. They just want to deceive you, and then they treat you as their own private property and vassal. Then they live a good life of being cared for. When they are bullied by their in-laws, they fight back fiercely on the basis of ensuring that they are not subjected to domestic violence! ! ! Like the heroine, wake up! Be self-reliant and self-reliant! But how can the scars of the past be healed? This is a great article about female growth! I hope more girls will read this!
I have already made a wish to adapt it and hope to see the adapted short drama soon.
The story is like a magnet, attracting attention from the first sentence. Every step of the protagonist's actions touches people's hearts. Crisis comes one after another but he is always able to avert danger. I hold my breath while reading, and my heart still beats faster when I close the book. I just want to read it again immediately to explore those neglected foreshadowings.
After ten years of marriage, how many married women has Jiayan become? I handed over my salary card, quit my job, and focused on my family. In the end, I almost forgot my own name. When I saw the part where she got the diagnosis for grade 3 breast nodules and her mother-in-law asked her to do the laundry without asking about her condition, I immediately broke my guard. Aren't these the countless of us who have been squeezed dry by our families?
Fortunately she woke up. Taking exams, working hard for a job, saving money to buy a house, from a monthly salary of 4,500 to an annual salary of 500,000, there is no golden finger, it is all real hard work, there is no forced coolness, no bloodshed, it is the most authentic details of marriage and the most authentic female awakening.
My biggest feeling after reading this is: A woman really only has herself as her supporter in this life. Don't lose yourself for anyone. Jiayan did it, and so can we. Five-star recommendation, all married and unmarried girls should watch it!
After reading this article, I burst into tears instantly. It was so real and heart-wrenching. How many women have lived like her in the article in their marriages? For the sake of so-called "family harmony", she put away her sharp edges, smoothed her edges, treated her mother-in-law as her biological mother, her husband as her support, and put her own needs infinitely behind. She thought that she would endure the calm for a while and take a step back to open up the world. Unexpectedly, her bottomless dedication would only be taken for granted. Fortunately, she cut her losses in time and took five years to make a comeback. She was not trying to take revenge on anyone, but to give herself an explanation. When she stood in the house she bought and looked at the lights of thousands of houses, the sober irony was the best farewell to the past ten years.
The most touching thing about this article is that it describes the power of female awakening. Marriage is not everything in life, self-worth is. Never lose yourself in marriage, and always leave yourself a way out. You can give for love, but you cannot sacrifice yourself for love. You are yourself first, and then your wife, mother, and daughter-in-law. Marriage is the icing on the cake, not a timely help. Never place your hopes on others, you are your own backer! Even if life gives you a slap in the face, you should still make a fist with your backhand👊. Recommend! Recommend! Recommend!
I finished reading it in one go. This book is really good. It is full of self-reliance and positive energy. I also hope that the author will publish a novel that focuses on describing the counterattack in the second half. The author's writing style is very good and the counterattack novel has a strong sense of substitution.
Comes from life, from reality. How many fairy tale filters have been shattered by marriage. From the beginning, the heroine was forbearing and had no sense of existence, and gradually transformed into a high-paid white-collar worker. This is a good article about women's awakening. I support [smile][smile]
A very real masterpiece that captures the sadness of many girls. In order to cater to others or certain expectations, I have been forbearing and compromising. It also sounds a wake-up call to the real-life love brain. Don't look at others, live for yourself. Only when you live well can you be truly good. This book touched my heart with its delicate writing style. Thank you to the author for showing such a good work and support [smile][smile]
I particularly like the author's "It turns out that the only person you can rely on in this world is yourself." A particularly good urban emotional workplace article with a strong sense of immersion. The author suppresses it first and then develops it. From the patience in the early stage to the salary increase and promotion in the later stage, the writing feels full of excitement. The only thing that was hard to get over was that the bullying in the early stage was all held in my chest and I couldn't let go! Looking forward to the next one
After ten years of marriage, she lived as someone else's appendage until a diagnosis woke her up. It turns out that a woman's strongest trump card is never her marriage or her husband's family, but the money in her hands, the skills in her mind, and the confidence to turn around at any time. Worth reading!
This book can be called a breath of fresh air in novels. It shatters the fairy tales of princesses and princes with real writing. Not everything in life is beautiful, there is also an ugly side. The protagonist has no golden fingers, it's all about hard work. The result is that it is better to rely on yourself than on others. I think it's best for unmarried girls to take a look and avoid taking some detours. The author's writing and plot are all online. I really like such a smart heroine. I have to stay up late to read it.
This novel is a breath of fresh air among tomato novels, causing readers to think deeply about marriage and family. We can see that this novel is rooted in the soil of life and encourages people to make progress. Five-star recommendation! Looking forward to seeing the next one soon.
From a monthly salary of 4,500 to an annual salary of 500,000, it was not the marriage that gave her the confidence, it was earned by herself. When her husband's family finally learned to respect it, she no longer needed it. I felt happy and distressed after watching it. Girls should always live for themselves!
After reading it, it's quite good. It feels like an autobiography, a very life-oriented novel. The author can adapt some parts and turn it into a short drama novel, such as "Chasing Wife at the Crematorium"
A masterpiece that is very realistic. It writes that most people in the world only see your beauty, and no one knows what you have done for it. I am afraid that the only one who can be trusted in this world is yourself, and even the person next to you may not be trustworthy. I really like this story and support [smile][smile]
The heroine is really amazing. From a little woman with a salary of 4,500 to 5,000 yuan, she awakens and becomes a high-paid white-collar worker. From being tolerant and having no sense of existence, she gradually matures and awakens. Many women have seen different growth and transformation of women.
Good inspirational article [like][like][like]
I read it in one sitting and cried and felt happy the whole time. What makes you cry is Jiayan's tolerance and grievances during her ten-year marriage. What makes her happy is his rebirth and every step of his comeback. The author understands the pain of married women so well that there is no clumsy formula for refreshing writing, and he only uses the most realistic writing style. It vividly describes the humbleness of marriage, the coldness of husband's family, and self-loss. Every plot is like looking in the mirror, poking at the pain points of countless women. This is not just a novel, but the real life of millions of married women. With palms facing up, they are all wronged. Only by supporting yourself is the confidence. This book reveals all the truth in marriage.
Thank you to the author for writing such a good work. It is not only a story, but also a good medicine. It gives all the girls struggling in marriage the courage to break through and be reborn. It has five stars and it is not enough to read it ten times. [Like][Like][Like]
I was deeply sympathized with by this book. Is anyone else like me? When I saw her smiling and taking the dirty clothes, my defenses were instantly broken? Girls must read it, and always remember not to give up your career and growth for anyone. With confidence in your hands and savings in your card, you have the road at your feet and the right to choose in your hands!
This book is very wonderfully written. The heroine starts from a housewife who works hard for her family. Due to an accident, she recognizes the reality and makes a complete change. After many years of hard work, she finally realizes herself and becomes a senior white-collar worker, thus gaining recognition from all parties. This is of great practical significance and well worth reading.
A woman's fighting spirit is so powerful and worthy of admiration!
This is a breath of fresh air in the current world of fiction. It comes from living words, is higher than life, originates from reality, and transcends reality. Give people encouragement, give people hope, and encourage people to become self-reliant and self-reliant! Like 👍
The story is warm and powerful, and the writing is delicate and warm. It is a healing and sobering work for women to grow up.
The narrative is excellent, and the foreshadowing is bottomless. The seemingly casual details turned out to be the key to unlocking the truth in the end. When all the clues were connected in series, I felt my scalp was numb and I couldn't help but marvel at the author's exquisite conception and grand layout.
Well written, autobiographical, follow-up reading
After reading it to the end, the writing is delicate and the characters are well described. Great book!
This woman is not simple, I look forward to the follow-up
Great book! Still reading
A good article about women's awakening, the writing is delicate, and there are many family and workplace plots that are very touching.
The writing is delicate and moving, the emotions are real and heart-piercing, and the heroine's growth line is super igniting. The reading makes people empathic and full of power.
A very interesting modern romance novel that tells a short story about a family's life.
Big cheers for the author!
A realistic female growth story, full of real life atmosphere, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, family, and workplace relationships!
Very nice! Great article with realistic themes!
After reading this book, I cried in bed for half an hour. I understand the heroine's suffocating feeling of "living as someone else's appendage" - when she got married, she believed her mother-in-law's words to "treat you as her own daughter", quit her job and handed over her salary for the sake of the family, cried silently in the bathroom late at night, endured and sacrificed without any bottom line, and finally Suffering from breast nodules due to depression, and being completely shattered by her mother-in-law's indifference, these tiny, pyrotechnic details accurately reproduce the self-sacrifice of countless married women, living their lives as "Chen Ming's wife" and "mother of their children", except that they are not themselves. The diagnosis of grade 3 breast nodules was like a slap in the face that woke her up. I instantly felt empathy and felt numb all over. How many women only wake up after their bodies turn on the red light and their hearts are completely broken by their husbands: It turns out that it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone else. The heroine spent five years taking exams, working hard, and buying a house. She went from being an accountant with a monthly salary of 4,500 yuan to a director with an annual salary of 500,000 yuan. This was not a trick in a cool novel, but the result of countless late nights of gritted teeth and perseverance. What struck me the most was the sentence at the end, "The only one you can always rely on is yourself." This book does not teach us to hate marriage or our in-laws, but it teaches us never to lose ourselves for anyone. If you are also wronged in your marriage and suffering from internal strife in your family, you must read this book. It will give you the courage to stand up again.
This article has written about the silence and collapse of many women in marriage. After several years of marriage, she gave all her tenderness and dedication to her family, endured all grievances, hid all sadness, and lived like a shadow of herself. She thought that sincerity could be replaced by sincerity. It was not until a medical certificate and a cold instruction that she saw clearly: some dedication was always self-motivated, without hysteria or blame. People just turned around silently, spent five years to counterattack and turn around, and lived to become their own backers. The most sober truth in the world is just one sentence: After the heartache, we have made a self-transcendence and counterattacked from ordinary accountants to strong men in the workplace. It turns out that the most painful thing is not the injury, but finally understanding that the most solid backer for a woman in this life is always herself. When she became strong, her husband's family began to learn to respect her. It turns out that respect is never gained by tolerance, but by strength. When you are weak, you are surrounded by bad people; when you are strong, the whole world is kind to you.
This article is an in-depth novel that makes girls empathize. Never be fooled by men's sweet words. They just want to deceive you, and then they treat you as their own private property and vassal. Then they live a good life of being cared for. When they are bullied by their in-laws, they fight back fiercely on the basis of ensuring that they are not subjected to domestic violence! ! ! Like the heroine, wake up! Be self-reliant and self-reliant! But how can the scars of the past be healed? This is a great article about female growth! I hope more girls will read this! I have already made a wish to adapt it and hope to see the adapted short drama soon.
The story is like a magnet, attracting attention from the first sentence. Every step of the protagonist's actions touches people's hearts. Crisis comes one after another but he is always able to avert danger. I hold my breath while reading, and my heart still beats faster when I close the book. I just want to read it again immediately to explore those neglected foreshadowings.
After ten years of marriage, how many married women has Jiayan become? I handed over my salary card, quit my job, and focused on my family. In the end, I almost forgot my own name. When I saw the part where she got the diagnosis for grade 3 breast nodules and her mother-in-law asked her to do the laundry without asking about her condition, I immediately broke my guard. Aren't these the countless of us who have been squeezed dry by our families? Fortunately she woke up. Taking exams, working hard for a job, saving money to buy a house, from a monthly salary of 4,500 to an annual salary of 500,000, there is no golden finger, it is all real hard work, there is no forced coolness, no bloodshed, it is the most authentic details of marriage and the most authentic female awakening. My biggest feeling after reading this is: A woman really only has herself as her supporter in this life. Don't lose yourself for anyone. Jiayan did it, and so can we. Five-star recommendation, all married and unmarried girls should watch it!
After reading this article, I burst into tears instantly. It was so real and heart-wrenching. How many women have lived like her in the article in their marriages? For the sake of so-called "family harmony", she put away her sharp edges, smoothed her edges, treated her mother-in-law as her biological mother, her husband as her support, and put her own needs infinitely behind. She thought that she would endure the calm for a while and take a step back to open up the world. Unexpectedly, her bottomless dedication would only be taken for granted. Fortunately, she cut her losses in time and took five years to make a comeback. She was not trying to take revenge on anyone, but to give herself an explanation. When she stood in the house she bought and looked at the lights of thousands of houses, the sober irony was the best farewell to the past ten years. The most touching thing about this article is that it describes the power of female awakening. Marriage is not everything in life, self-worth is. Never lose yourself in marriage, and always leave yourself a way out. You can give for love, but you cannot sacrifice yourself for love. You are yourself first, and then your wife, mother, and daughter-in-law. Marriage is the icing on the cake, not a timely help. Never place your hopes on others, you are your own backer! Even if life gives you a slap in the face, you should still make a fist with your backhand👊. Recommend! Recommend! Recommend!
I finished reading it in one go. This book is really good. It is full of self-reliance and positive energy. I also hope that the author will publish a novel that focuses on describing the counterattack in the second half. The author's writing style is very good and the counterattack novel has a strong sense of substitution.
Comes from life, from reality. How many fairy tale filters have been shattered by marriage. From the beginning, the heroine was forbearing and had no sense of existence, and gradually transformed into a high-paid white-collar worker. This is a good article about women's awakening. I support [smile][smile]
A very real masterpiece that captures the sadness of many girls. In order to cater to others or certain expectations, I have been forbearing and compromising. It also sounds a wake-up call to the real-life love brain. Don't look at others, live for yourself. Only when you live well can you be truly good. This book touched my heart with its delicate writing style. Thank you to the author for showing such a good work and support [smile][smile]
I particularly like the author's "It turns out that the only person you can rely on in this world is yourself." A particularly good urban emotional workplace article with a strong sense of immersion. The author suppresses it first and then develops it. From the patience in the early stage to the salary increase and promotion in the later stage, the writing feels full of excitement. The only thing that was hard to get over was that the bullying in the early stage was all held in my chest and I couldn't let go! Looking forward to the next one
After ten years of marriage, she lived as someone else's appendage until a diagnosis woke her up. It turns out that a woman's strongest trump card is never her marriage or her husband's family, but the money in her hands, the skills in her mind, and the confidence to turn around at any time. Worth reading!
This book can be called a breath of fresh air in novels. It shatters the fairy tales of princesses and princes with real writing. Not everything in life is beautiful, there is also an ugly side. The protagonist has no golden fingers, it's all about hard work. The result is that it is better to rely on yourself than on others. I think it's best for unmarried girls to take a look and avoid taking some detours. The author's writing and plot are all online. I really like such a smart heroine. I have to stay up late to read it.
This novel is a breath of fresh air among tomato novels, causing readers to think deeply about marriage and family. We can see that this novel is rooted in the soil of life and encourages people to make progress. Five-star recommendation! Looking forward to seeing the next one soon.
From a monthly salary of 4,500 to an annual salary of 500,000, it was not the marriage that gave her the confidence, it was earned by herself. When her husband's family finally learned to respect it, she no longer needed it. I felt happy and distressed after watching it. Girls should always live for themselves!
After reading it, it's quite good. It feels like an autobiography, a very life-oriented novel. The author can adapt some parts and turn it into a short drama novel, such as "Chasing Wife at the Crematorium"
A masterpiece that is very realistic. It writes that most people in the world only see your beauty, and no one knows what you have done for it. I am afraid that the only one who can be trusted in this world is yourself, and even the person next to you may not be trustworthy. I really like this story and support [smile][smile]
The heroine is really amazing. From a little woman with a salary of 4,500 to 5,000 yuan, she awakens and becomes a high-paid white-collar worker. From being tolerant and having no sense of existence, she gradually matures and awakens. Many women have seen different growth and transformation of women. Good inspirational article [like][like][like]
I read it in one sitting and cried and felt happy the whole time. What makes you cry is Jiayan's tolerance and grievances during her ten-year marriage. What makes her happy is his rebirth and every step of his comeback. The author understands the pain of married women so well that there is no clumsy formula for refreshing writing, and he only uses the most realistic writing style. It vividly describes the humbleness of marriage, the coldness of husband's family, and self-loss. Every plot is like looking in the mirror, poking at the pain points of countless women. This is not just a novel, but the real life of millions of married women. With palms facing up, they are all wronged. Only by supporting yourself is the confidence. This book reveals all the truth in marriage. Thank you to the author for writing such a good work. It is not only a story, but also a good medicine. It gives all the girls struggling in marriage the courage to break through and be reborn. It has five stars and it is not enough to read it ten times. [Like][Like][Like]
I was deeply sympathized with by this book. Is anyone else like me? When I saw her smiling and taking the dirty clothes, my defenses were instantly broken? Girls must read it, and always remember not to give up your career and growth for anyone. With confidence in your hands and savings in your card, you have the road at your feet and the right to choose in your hands!
This book is very wonderfully written. The heroine starts from a housewife who works hard for her family. Due to an accident, she recognizes the reality and makes a complete change. After many years of hard work, she finally realizes herself and becomes a senior white-collar worker, thus gaining recognition from all parties. This is of great practical significance and well worth reading.
A woman's fighting spirit is so powerful and worthy of admiration!
This is a breath of fresh air in the current world of fiction. It comes from living words, is higher than life, originates from reality, and transcends reality. Give people encouragement, give people hope, and encourage people to become self-reliant and self-reliant! Like 👍
The story is warm and powerful, and the writing is delicate and warm. It is a healing and sobering work for women to grow up.
The narrative is excellent, and the foreshadowing is bottomless. The seemingly casual details turned out to be the key to unlocking the truth in the end. When all the clues were connected in series, I felt my scalp was numb and I couldn't help but marvel at the author's exquisite conception and grand layout.
Well written, autobiographical, follow-up reading After reading it to the end, the writing is delicate and the characters are well described. Great book!
This woman is not simple, I look forward to the follow-up Great book! Still reading
A good article about women's awakening, the writing is delicate, and there are many family and workplace plots that are very touching.
The writing is delicate and moving, the emotions are real and heart-piercing, and the heroine's growth line is super igniting. The reading makes people empathic and full of power.
A very interesting modern romance novel that tells a short story about a family's life. Big cheers for the author!
A realistic female growth story, full of real life atmosphere, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, family, and workplace relationships! Very nice! Great article with realistic themes!