Half a life passed, she was lost in daily necessities, rice, oil and salt, and struggled with repeated emotional entanglements, but she never gave up her pursuit of herself. When she fully realized that "marriage is not everything in life", she turned around resolutely, jumped out of her comfort zone, and rushed to her own career battlefield. If there is no shortcut, just take one step at a time; if there is no backing to support, then become your own backing. She does not deny every emotional experience in the past. Those encounters and separations are all nutrients for growth; but she knows more clearly that career is the most solid foundation for women. In the end, she is not trapped in love or identity, uses her career as a wing, lives with freedom and calmness, and interprets the true meaning of "strong woman" - she can shine without depending on anyone.