[Double heroines + one year old doting on the next year + two-way redemption + HE + sweet pet + age difference]
The little white rabbit with avoidant attachment VS the gentle hunter with full sense of boundaries
Have you ever been 30 like this?
I don't dare to make any demands or trouble anyone. I will only bow my head and apologize when I am criticized in public. Even when I break down, I have to choose late nights when no one is around. I shrink myself into an airtight shell, thinking that my whole life will be like the rime in the cold winter, forever frozen on the branches that no one cares about.
That's what Yun Musong is.
30 Years old, a low-level editor at a publishing house, a solo mother, with C-PTSD and avoidant attachment.
I have practiced the three words "don't disturb" my whole life, swallowing all my grievances, pains, and collapses, and never dared to reach out to the world once.
Until she met Shen Que.
37-Year-old Shen Que, a former commercial lawyer at Red Circle, is now the founder of a well-known trauma psychology studio in the industry. He is the "Dinghai Shengzhen" in everyone's eyes.
She has been a safe haven for others all her life, covering for everyone, but no one has thought about it for her; she has seen too many approaches with purpose, is tired of the never-ending emotional solicitation, and has long closed the door to intimate relationships.
Their encounter was never a fairy tale between the savior and the rescued.
It is a person who is huddled in a shell, and for the first time he is carefully caught and frail;
It was the person who had held an umbrella all her life, and for the first time she met someone who just wanted to put a coat on her.
Yun Muchong's "not asking for anything" just filled the relaxation that Shen Que had been craving for half his life; Shen Que's "not crossing the line" just melted the ice that Yun Muchong had been frozen in for 30 years.
Reader comments
A very good story. An avoidant personality needs a very patient person who cannot be pushed away or driven away no matter what, and who is always by his side. Those suffocating flashbacks made me seem to see the weak and helpless version of myself at that time... I couldn't stand the desire many times, so I stopped. Take a deep breath and continue reading, because I saw a part of my past self. I was not so lucky to meet the person who pulled me out. Fortunately, I never gave up on myself. I dragged myself out of the abyss forcefully. No one helped me, but I made it myself! Reconciling with your family of origin and yourself is a long and painful process. Just like mental illness, it will appear repeatedly and suddenly, lingering from time to time. A sudden attack every time you feel you are getting better will make you collapse and doubt yourself. However, persist, grit your teeth and persist if you can't persist. I will not say that the world is worth it. I hope that everyone, no matter what, can live a good life...
I personally think it is very beautiful. There are some details in this work that are well grasped (the relationship between East Asian mother and daughter). What is impressive is the period when we first live together (my writing is limited), which makes people look forward to love because both parties are very good people. As the saying goes, a stubborn person needs someone who can't be driven away (both sides have contributed, not one-sided). If you are interested, you can come and take a look. ദി˶ｰ̀֊ｰ́ )✧
In fact, I haven't read them all carefully yet, I only skimmed them briefly, but I can't help but comment first, and I will read them again later~
This book may even be my salvation. I was struck hard at many points while reading it. There is also the age setting. The protagonists of many novels are very young and outstanding. After all, it is a novel world. But as a reader who is closer to 30 years old than 20 years old, I really feel that I am being wrapped up in a very gentle way when reading this book. It seems that after 30 years old, there is still a chance to grow, there is still time to find and pursue your own career, there is still time to slowly learn to get along with others, learn to love and be loved. It is normal to not be strong enough at your age. My life has not been ruined, and it is not too late.
Although I can't expect reality to develop like the novel. Maybe I will still have no future when I am 40, 50, or 60 years old, and I will not be able to meet anyone I can fall in love with. But at least I feel seen, and I feel that I am not weird, and I have more strength to continue on. [Love]
This is the first time I've seen two heroines set up like this. It's very nice.
A very comfortable book [love] [love]
The delicate emotions between them are the most touching
The description is very detailed and really brings to life the psychology of people like Yun.
However, it's so depressing! ! !
Normally I want to relax when I read novels, but this time it made me depressed...
Like, in this vast sea of people you can always meet someone who understands you, it's just a matter of time.
I'm so lucky to be able to read the author's novel after a tiring day. The author's writing in big letters is really beautiful [Sending my heart][Sending my heart]
How shameless! ! Yunbaobao is so cute. The article is very good except for some repetitions. Thank you to the author [Send heartfelt thanks]
It's a very good novel. The author's writing style is exquisite. He writes the inner thoughts of the characters in detail and the portrayal is perfect. Keep up the good work, the author [sending my heart] [sending my heart]
A very good story. An avoidant personality needs a very patient person who cannot be pushed away or driven away no matter what, and who is always by his side. Those suffocating flashbacks made me seem to see the weak and helpless version of myself at that time... I couldn't stand the desire many times, so I stopped. Take a deep breath and continue reading, because I saw a part of my past self. I was not so lucky to meet the person who pulled me out. Fortunately, I never gave up on myself. I dragged myself out of the abyss forcefully. No one helped me, but I made it myself! Reconciling with your family of origin and yourself is a long and painful process. Just like mental illness, it will appear repeatedly and suddenly, lingering from time to time. A sudden attack every time you feel you are getting better will make you collapse and doubt yourself. However, persist, grit your teeth and persist if you can't persist. I will not say that the world is worth it. I hope that everyone, no matter what, can live a good life...
I personally think it is very beautiful. There are some details in this work that are well grasped (the relationship between East Asian mother and daughter). What is impressive is the period when we first live together (my writing is limited), which makes people look forward to love because both parties are very good people. As the saying goes, a stubborn person needs someone who can't be driven away (both sides have contributed, not one-sided). If you are interested, you can come and take a look. ദി˶ｰ̀֊ｰ́ )✧
In fact, I haven't read them all carefully yet, I only skimmed them briefly, but I can't help but comment first, and I will read them again later~ This book may even be my salvation. I was struck hard at many points while reading it. There is also the age setting. The protagonists of many novels are very young and outstanding. After all, it is a novel world. But as a reader who is closer to 30 years old than 20 years old, I really feel that I am being wrapped up in a very gentle way when reading this book. It seems that after 30 years old, there is still a chance to grow, there is still time to find and pursue your own career, there is still time to slowly learn to get along with others, learn to love and be loved. It is normal to not be strong enough at your age. My life has not been ruined, and it is not too late. Although I can't expect reality to develop like the novel. Maybe I will still have no future when I am 40, 50, or 60 years old, and I will not be able to meet anyone I can fall in love with. But at least I feel seen, and I feel that I am not weird, and I have more strength to continue on. [Love]
This is the first time I've seen two heroines set up like this. It's very nice.
A very comfortable book [love] [love]
The delicate emotions between them are the most touching
The description is very detailed and really brings to life the psychology of people like Yun. However, it's so depressing! ! ! Normally I want to relax when I read novels, but this time it made me depressed...
Like, in this vast sea of people you can always meet someone who understands you, it's just a matter of time.
I'm so lucky to be able to read the author's novel after a tiring day. The author's writing in big letters is really beautiful [Sending my heart][Sending my heart]
How shameless! ! Yunbaobao is so cute. The article is very good except for some repetitions. Thank you to the author [Send heartfelt thanks]
It's a very good novel. The author's writing style is exquisite. He writes the inner thoughts of the characters in detail and the portrayal is perfect. Keep up the good work, the author [sending my heart] [sending my heart]