The 1.9 Meter Handsome Girl Is Wonderful Both as a Woman and as a Man.

When shortcomings become brilliance 1.90M female growth and career awakening The role of older women is often reduced to a problem to be solved: how to get married, how to integrate, how to become "normal" But in this article, the author made a beautiful narrative breakthrough. The heroine Ye Qingge was frustrated in her blind date, not because she was not good enough, but because she was trapped in a single evaluation system or secular standardization. Ye Qingge's awakening or transformation began with another system (the short play director's artistic vision) seeing her in a completely different way A person's value is never single. The so-called "shortcomings" are just misplaced talents. I think the writing is good because the author did not create a cool routine of changing careers and being reborn, but gave the characters a more three-dimensional sense of reality. She doesn't have to be anyone to prove herself. The dual identities of designer and skit actor together constitute her abundant self. The protagonist's anxiety, attempts, excitement and confusion closely revolve around how I exist and how I exert my value, from "being scrutinized" to "being appreciated", and finally to the process of "self-identification". This independent narrative that does not rely on love redemption allows the character's sense of power to arise from within, which is very solid. Even if there was a conflict between the two professions, she was not forced to choose one of the two paths, but continued to move forward with both identities. Having room for choice and the courage to try is also the most sincere depiction of real life. By the way, I have a little thought at the end when I watched it. I don't know if it's right or not. For example, after becoming famous because of a short play, will this 'new identity' bring an unexpected crisis to her original career as a designer? For example, a traditional and rigorous Party A or a senior in the industry accidentally discovers that she is actually the "grandstanding" skit actor on the Internet, which seriously questions her professionalism and credibility, and even causes her to fail in bidding or lose important projects. But crises are also opportunities. Could it be that at the same time, there is another cutting-edge client who values ​​innovation and is eager to break industry stereotypes (for example, a pioneering sports community or youth cultural space). It is because of her vitality and unique story that breaks the circle that she comes to the door, thinking that she can inject the scarce "humanistic narrative" and "vital gene" into the space.

It's a good-looking, innovative novel heroine with a very cool height. I don't know if there will be a 2-meter male protagonist in the future or no cp😊

I am so happy that someone wrote such an article to express the plight of tall girls, and not to let them become men, lesbians, or objectified spiritual men, but to let them become natural women. The natural biological height is basically caused by social gender double standards. It is a body shape given by nature, and there is nothing wrong with it. However, society has set a fixed template for women: they must be petite, weak, small and delicate. Physical characteristics and social disciplines for women are in direct conflict. From childhood to adulthood, there is internal friction and mental tension. Only those who are personally in this group understand this feeling, and others cannot understand it at all. Moreover, some people will feel that they are not qualified to talk about this and will cover their mouths. The most regrettable thing is that the mother-daughter line did not write about real reconciliation and change. Mother and daughter are the inheritors of the bondage of two generations of women. The previous generation was trapped by traditional gender disciplines, and they unconsciously placed this set of standards on their daughters. What I want to see is a mother who is truly influenced by her daughter, breaks down stereotypes, and admits that her daughter is good the way she is, without having to adapt to the world. However, the novel does not delve deeply into the unbinding and mutual redemption between women. My favorite is the movie about her playing basketball, and the second one is about this basketball movie. I really like a very powerful person who creates himself, is wanton, powerful, in control of himself on the court, lives completely for himself, does not accommodate gender labels, does not pretend to be weak, and does not cater to anyone. That state of creating your own light without relying on marriage or anyone else is what a tall and independent woman should look like in your mind, pure and powerful. There is no need to use "genderless" to define strong women. Hua Mulan herself is a complete woman. She does not need to erase her femininity and forcibly blur her gender in order to be worthy of being powerful. Women are powerful and do not need to pretend to be men or dissolve their female identity to prove themselves. It should have been like this: Thousands of Mulans, even though they were born female, can still be strong, sober, and in control of their own lives, without deliberately hiding themselves and catering to the environment. The most disgusting ending of Hua Mulan is when she returns to the boudoir and looks in the mirror. She fought on the battlefield, relied on her ability to stand up, and lived a life that was tougher and stronger than countless men. She had obviously broken away from the inherent shackles of women, but in the end she was dragged back to the traditional female template - dressing up and pretending to "look like a woman" in the eyes of the world. What I hate is not the action of the decal yellow at all, but the strong man who has clearly broken through the shackles, and is finally forced back into the old discipline. She does not need to deliberately become genderless, but she does not need to return to the traditional female framework to cater to worldly expectations after success. I'm particularly puzzled: Times have changed a long time ago, why do classic stories never follow iterations? Always stick to the ending of the old version and dare not rewrite it - Hua Mulan cannot have the second half of her life, cannot have a life in her thirties and forties, cannot have a deep career, and cannot have a life path of her own choice. No one writes about her physical and mental changes, life experiences, and self-growth in middle age. She does not rely on marriage or returning to the family, but only makes her own life map. Everyone just settled on "joining the army for my father and returning to my hometown with honor" and then it ended abruptly, wiping out the rest of a top female powerhouse's life. This is the most disappointing thing. The heroine's growth was too perfunctory and too stereotyped: there were slight deficiencies in the early stage → the director gave some guidance → she thought about it for a moment and suddenly had an epiphany → she immediately understood and the performance was perfect in the blink of an eye. There is absolutely no real struggle, repeated running-in, long-term accumulation, and the process of getting the mentality out bit by bit. Real growth involves stumbling, confusion, and entanglement, and needs to be polished slowly. It does not mean that someone else suddenly becomes enlightened and immediately cheats with a word from others. This kind of rapid growth is particularly suspended and disrespectful of the characters themselves. I just love the reality of her being 1.9 Meters tall and walking down a long street, being randomly identified as to her gender and being labeled as "neither female nor male". This is the daily life of tall girls growing up: your physical body shape is there, but the world uses a set of petite and weak female standards to frame you. Passers-by define you in a stereotyped way at first glance, comment, wonder, and even look at you with prejudice. But the most precious thing is that she slowly took root inward: she didn't have to change herself into a "girly look" in the eyes of others, and she didn't have to hide in a neutral gender, but she accepted it calmly - I am a woman, born 1.9 Meters tall, with broad shoulders and a strong aura. Being tall is not a flaw, it is a talent and advantage that is unique to me. From feeling inferior and awkward, to accepting body shape, identifying with oneself, and living a relaxed and magnanimous life, this period of growth in self-identity is really powerful. She hopes that the eyes of people around her will change accordingly, not to let her adapt to the worldly aesthetics, but in turn, to let others slowly get used to it and slowly recognize it: women can be tall and straight, with a strong aura. Girls are not just petite. Girls who are 1.9 Meters tall are still complete and dazzling women. You are particularly unwilling to be the only woman in the industry, and you are looking at all the male practitioners. You hope from the bottom of your heart that you will not be just a special case. There should not always be only one girl who breaks the circle, but more and more tall, powerful, and capable women can come forward and pour into various industries. From "she is the only one" to "a group of outstanding tall women standing side by side", they are no longer a minority or alien, but have become a normal, common, and accepted existence as a matter of course.

I wrote a lot, then I quit and it was all gone, and I cried to death (please add a short review) Let me start with the conclusion: This is a very healthy novel! The protagonist is a normal person with a bit of specialness, but he is trying to use his specialness to achieve his goals. He tells all ordinary people who are a bit "special" to accept all of themselves and don't set limits for themselves. Although the plot is a little dull and the writing is a little jerky, the idea is very good and deserves five stars for encouragement!

It looks good, I love watching it👀

The theme of the story is very novel, and the early stage is quite interesting. After a third of the story, I wanted to watch the ending, because I probably guessed the plot, and the result was almost the same.

It's a very novel subject matter and it's very comfortable to watch. The heroine has a very good personality. I like it so much.

Well, this is the first time I read a novel on this topic, which is very novel.

Super pretty, the heroine is so handsome!

The subject matter is novel and worth recommending

It has a strong sense of being close to life,

The subject matter is very good and unique. After reading dozens of chapters, I feel like I can hardly say anything. Many of them revolve around basketball, interviews, daily work, etc.

Very readable and the characters are full-bodied

It's a rare sober heroine, looking forward to the follow-up development

It's very novel, and the water flows slowly.

I read it, it's very well written.

It's a very interesting story. I really like it. Some of the descriptions really touched me.

It looks good. This is novel and popular.

The protagonist is a very down-to-earth actor. He is very down-to-earth and hard-working in life, work and acting. He is worth following [Like]

Very interesting, very novel, a female-oriented novel

Beautiful, recommended! ! ! After reading so many novels, I feel like my eyes are shining brightly

Very interesting setting, the author's writing is very good