Can an Adopted Son Be Added to the Family Tree? Have Our Ancestors Given Up on Us?

3 Stars ➕ 1 star pure encouragement. The whole process is purely based on words, and the three sisters are okay no matter how much they argue. Just like NPCs, they will insert all kinds of arguments in the middle every time, and then they will become invisible and continue next time...

It's beautiful. I highly recommend it. Everyone must read it. After watching it, my waist no longer hurts and my legs no longer shake. I eat Ma Ma Xiang. I'm not going to lie to you 🧐

I think the perspective of this book is very good. Bones are etiquette. This is the first time I have a deep understanding of how etiquette gives Chinese culture its roots. The core is the ancestor worship of fallen leaves returning to their roots. Respecting heaven and ancestors is a Chinese belief. What drives the plot is a female channel's bloody drama. I think the male channel's interests can be used as the leading factor, so that the story will be more grand. Let's talk about the advantages and disadvantages: the pace is too slow, the collision of strong emotional conflicts and traditional etiquette is okay, but the stitching is a bit cheap. Generally speaking, the author is an innovation. The author should be a beneficiary of etiquette and can also deeply analyze the foundation of Chinese culture. It is very awesome, but the writing style needs to be improved.

I feel really good about it. Although the routine is a bit repetitive, there is also some kind of fun in it. For example, once the protagonist kneels before his ancestors, he knows what he is going to do. The writing is really good. If there is traffic, you should be able to sell shorts. The location is in the village again and again, and it is not too complicated to go out. The writing is generally good. Let's talk about family rules and regulations. Swearing by ancestors can be small or big. Nowadays, aristocratic families basically don't have it, so many people feel that swearing is very casual. But really in front of so many familiar faces, relatives and friends, let alone swearing, lying will be obvious. As for rules, there will always be some that are reasonable and those that are not. It's just that the novel shows that the protagonists are all reasonable, but in reality, there will always be things that require rules, and there will always be times when you are bound by the rules and suffer losses. Rural areas seem to be rural areas, but this is just intentional. Is it okay to develop ancestral land into cities? Of course it is possible. Many cities were developed because of investment, too many, but first-tier cities are not. Development means the need for policies, planning of land, preservation of rural areas, and the stability of ancestral graves with good Feng Shui. It is not that there are no aristocratic families now. My grandpa's side is. Normally, the Chinese New Year should be celebrated at my father's side. I go back to my grandpa's house every year. No matter how rich and powerful I am, the rules of seniority are followed when I go back. Otherwise, don't go back. If you don't go back once, you will never go back. I didn't understand it when I was a kid, and adults are still used to it. When I grow up a little, it's really stressful to go back. When do we have New Year's dinner together, worship ancestors together, when does each family kill pigs, which house should we go to first, and who should be called first when visiting. Anyway, my mother is already married, so she doesn't have much to do with her. She only seeks help when it's particularly urgent.

An engagement can be big or small. It is a drama at the wine table, words at the dinner table, and an oath in front of the temple. In the end, it is very difficult to deal with who breaks the contract. Also, ordinary people should never think about registering for gifts. Knowledge is not important. What is important is that you can hear clearly. If you make a mistake in registration, the host will make a mistake in returning the gift. If someone sees you on the spot, you will be criticized.

The gentleman is a great talent, and he understands the etiquette and rules of the clan. Nowadays, money is paramount, and the corruption of etiquette can be checked by the rules of the clan. It is rare to have a good book if you are polite and moderate.

I don't know why, but for the first time, I suddenly felt like dragging the author out and giving him a beating 😏 😏

I am a northerner. The north has been strictly controlled by central power since ancient times, and the space for clan autonomy is limited. We pay attention to blood, seniority, sacrifices, and inheritance. Unlike the southerners who pay attention to minor repairs in thirty years and major repairs in sixty years, I have something to say. I don't understand it, but I respect it!

To encourage you, the setting is a conspiracy theory of the Lin family in southern Fujian. They do maintain confidentiality measures such as not being allowed to take photos when worshiping their ancestors. The Lin family's ancestral land itself is poor, but they do business on the side, which is the so-called rich and powerful. This system lasted for 600 years. Now the surface is falling apart. All branches worship their ancestors in Taiwan, Southeast Asia and other places. The power is also relatively large. On the surface, there is no credibility endorsement like the Chaoshan Chamber of Commerce. Logically speaking, it has no control over its own ancestral land and has only symbolic meaning. But just because it is weak, there is no need for the side branch to abandon its ancestral land. Genealogy is not unique to the ancestral land, even if it has been isolated for more than 20 years due to the founding of New China. However, during the reform and opening up, some people will still go to worship their ancestors. It's almost the same as Chaoshan. But there is a big family controlling Chaoshan. To be honest, the Lin family in southern Fujian is divided into pieces. There is no main family that is more powerful than the main family, because the side branches don't care about the so-called main family at all. They only care about their ancestral land. As for the main clan, is it still the original main clan? Honestly, don't care.

In an era where money is paramount, there is a different kind of perseverance, which is worth a look!