Su Jinnian's childhood was free of bloody domestic violence, but full of petty misfortune: needs were put aside, contributions were ignored, grievances were criticized, and her mother's "raise you to be most benevolent and righteous" was a curse engraved in her heart. When she grew up, her please-pleaser personality made her suffer at a disadvantage in the workplace and was manipulated by her family of origin, making her live a cautious and tiring life. It wasn't until a double blow that she completely woke up - it's better to rely on others than to rely on yourself, and being sensible can't be exchanged for favoritism. From then on, she put away all accommodations, learned skills to gain confidence, refused to ask for boundaries, and grew from a soft persimmon who could be manipulated by others to an independent and sober heroine. Don't forgive the past, don't dwell on right or wrong, just focus on your own path. Su Jinnian spent half his life understanding that only by being strong can he maintain a happy life.
