Today, Lin Wan is no longer obsessed with chasing the "standard answer" in the eyes of others. She would buy herself a favorite ice cream after working overtime, write down her mistakes as "growth notes" instead of "self-criticism", and smile at the corners of her eyes with fine lines in the mirror and say, "You have worked very hard." She finally understood that making peace with herself was never about indulgence and compromise, but like the spring breeze melting the remaining snow, replacing harshness with understanding and filling anxiety with acceptance. Those "gaps" that once made her feel inferior have now become her own life patterns - this is Lin Wan, an ordinary person who went from "treating herself harshly" to "gentle embrace". Her story contains the phrase "it doesn't matter" that everyone who has struggled with her most wants to hear.
