Martial Arts: Sword Sweeps Across the Rivers and Lakes to Resolve Grievances

Question: When you have great power one day, what will you do with this power? Answer: Live for yourself! I used to live a life of frustration, but now I have to live with the wantonness in my bones, the courage to not be given in, and the joy of daring to love and hate. In the past, I was always afraid of offending others, so I always said "be patient and it will be over". As a result, I wronged myself and allowed others to take advantage of others; now I need to engrave "just say it if you feel uncomfortable" in your heart. Whoever makes you unhappy will be upset first, and you will no longer be that soft persimmon who holds back tears secretly until late at night. I used to be kidnapped by "what I should do". For the sake of so-called stability, I gave up my principles, compromised the job I didn't like, and drank cups of bitter wine. Now I have to put "what I want to do" first. If I want to go out, I will pack my bags. If I want to say no, I will simply refuse. Even if I stumble, it is better than being stuck in the same place and leaving regrets. I used to always think about others and forget that I also need to be loved; now I have to put myself first, do whatever I want to do, and refuse directly if I don't want to do it; never hesitate when meeting someone I like, show no mercy to those who are hypocritical, and never waste energy on unworthy people and things.