Some words are left unsaid, but once spoken they go straight to the heart. For example: "You think he can't live without you, but it's actually because he hasn't found a better replacement"; "You always complain that she has changed, but you have never thought about whether you are still willing to change for her"; "Love is not 'I support you', but 'I will support this family with you'". The heartbreaking thing about these quotations is that they tear away the "idealized filter" in emotions and allow people to see the edges of reality: passion will fade, but responsibility can make a relationship stronger; quarrels are not terrible, but "attack" is used instead of "communication"; the root cause of an affair is often not the "third party" but "long-term unsatisfied internal needs." Heartbreaking quotes are not meant to make people despair, but to make people sober - after seeing the truth clearly, still choosing to operate with heart is a mature emotional attitude.
