[Micro fear + micro abuse + white to black + healing style + all members are slightly crazy + never compromise + sweet love]
Lin Mengxi was walking on the path home. She finally broke away from her mother's gaze and could live a stable and ordinary life.
Unexpectedly, just after leaving the wolf's den and entering the tiger's den, Gu Yebai quietly followed her.
He is a hunter but he lets his prey go.
She is prey but never yields.
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The "ambivalent mother-daughter relationship" between Lin Mengxi and her mother illustrates the love and hurt of a Chinese-style family. While her mother touched her head and said "I love you", she scolded her as a "waste"; while teaching her to "keep your head high and fight back", she denied the possibility of her being loved. This kind of contradictory education has caused Lin Mengxi to live in "self-doubt" since she was a child - she doesn't know whether her mother's love is true, and she can't believe in anyone's protection. In the first five chapters, Lin Mengxi did not seek help from her mother after being attacked, but chose to solve the problem herself. This is the inevitable result of this kind of education: her mother's love was full of denial and control, which made her lose the courage to rely on her. The mother's "Don't imagine that someone loves you" seems to be a sober warning, but in fact it is passing on her own trauma to her daughter - perhaps the mother has also been hurt by love, so she feels that "if you don't expect it, you won't be hurt." But the side effect of this kind of education was that it made Lin Mengxi hard and lonely. She had the courage to fight back, but she did not feel the softness of love. The same is true for many families in reality. Parents use the name of "for your own good" to convey their own fears and traumas. Love and hurt are intertwined, making it difficult for people to break free. Lin Mengxi's resistance is not only a resistance to the stalker, but also an implicit resistance to this "suffocating love" - she wants to prove that she can live a good life without relying on others.
The cycle of violence in their native families has formed two extremes in Gu Yebai and Lin Mengxi. Gu Yebai faced the burns caused by his mother Gu Yuehui's cigarette butt without any resistance or even took it for granted. This kind of "passive acceptance of violence" eventually turned him into a perpetrator - killing people to relieve his fatigue, stalking others, and venting his inner depression in extreme ways. Faced with her mother's "trash" insults and contradictory love, Lin Mengxi chose to "actively resist" - beating up the harassing boss and killing the stalker, and engraved in her bones what her mother taught her to "fight back with your head held high and your chest high". The two different ways of coping just confirm the dual impact of native domestic violence: it can either turn people into transmitters of violence, or turn people into extreme resisters. The mother's education to Lin Mengxi seemed to be "protection", but in fact it was to pass on her own fears to her daughter - "Don't believe that someone loves you." This kind of negative education made Lin Mengxi lose the ability to trust others, and she could only carry it on her own. Gu Yuehui's violence against Gu Yebai was a direct destruction, causing him to lose his normal emotional cognition and could only sink in the darkness. The harm caused to the family of origin is never single, it will affect a person's life in different ways.
Come, the author read with me, and I solemnly swear: starting from today, I will never update. I will not watch dramas, travel, or get sick. I will play no games, no hydrology. Strict self-discipline, cherishing time like gold, perseverance, hard work, advocating first-class, striving for brilliance, taking pleasure in coding, being tempered into steel, and worthy of readers, worthy of youth, and worthy of the future. As an author, I solemnly declare: I firmly believe that I am an excellent author. Coding is my bounden duty. I have unlimited potential and am not afraid of hardship! I can code words diligently. I am a keyboard in the dark and a guard on the Great Wall of Internet. I voluntarily dedicate my life to code words every day and every night.
The essence of Gu Yebai's "crazy character" is twisted loneliness and desire for control. In the first five chapters, he was obviously a hunter, but his rhythm was disrupted by his prey, Lin Mengxi: he was hit on the chin, kicked, and stepped on the head. Not only was he not angry but excited, he even said "Let's go to hell together." This kind of "masochistic tendency" is not unreasonable, but the product of long-term loneliness + abnormal family education - he said that he "has no friends except his mother" and kills people just to relieve his fatigue. It can be seen that there is no normal emotional connection in his world, and he can only seek a sense of existence through extreme means. Gu Yebai's "obsession" for Lin Mengxi is not so much love as the novelty of "finally finding a prey who doesn't play by the rules." He enjoys the excitement of being resisted and is eager to fill his loneliness by being "tied" (going to hell together). Some people find this crazy setting interesting because it breaks the traditional framework of the "perfect male protagonist" and is full of danger and tension; but others find it disgusting because it touches the bottom line of "violence" and "murder." In fact, the charm of the crazy character setting lies precisely in its "taboo feeling" - from a safe reading distance, we can peep into the darkness and distortion of human nature, feeling both fearful and curious. This is also the reason why this type of setting has endured for so long.
Come, the author read with me, and I solemnly swear: starting from today, I will never update. I will not watch dramas, travel, or get sick. I will play no games, no hydrology. Strict self-discipline, cherishing time like gold, perseverance, hard work, advocating first-class, striving for brilliance, taking pleasure in coding, being tempered into steel, and worthy of readers, worthy of youth, and worthy of the future. As an author, I solemnly declare: I firmly believe that I am an excellent author. Coding is my bounden duty. I have unlimited potential and am not afraid of hardship! I can code words diligently. I am a keyboard in the dark and a guard on the Great Wall of Internet. I voluntarily dedicate my life to code words every day and every night.
Fang Zhuoyan's "Silly Baitian" hides the most poignant contradiction between lovers: the imbalance between sincerity and boundary. In the first five chapters, he sent live toads and grilled skewers and bouquets of flowers. Each gift was sincere with "I think about you" - the toads bring wealth and the grilled skewers bring food to the family. However, this "self-impressed romance" completely ignored Lin Mengxi's feelings. What makes people even more uncomfortable is his behavior of "mudging his shirt and smelling it", which seems to be intimate, but in fact it seriously crosses the line and invades the other person's personal space. In reality, many couples will encounter similar problems: one party feels that "I am good to you" can break the boundary, but the other party feels offended. Fang Zhuoyan's "silliness" lies in his ignorance of "respect" and regards "self-movation" as "love". This sincere and outrageous way of getting along makes people think it is funny, but also makes people reflect: "good" between lovers, is "I want to give you" or "what do you need"? The cute thing about Fang Zhuoyan is that he is pure and has no evil intentions, but this kind of "pure transgression" is often more difficult to deal with than deliberate harm - accusing him seems to be making a fuss, and not accusing him will wrong him. This is probably the sweet trouble of "silly and sweet boyfriend".
The writing is very good and the story is very interesting. The sense of immersion in the story is very good. The more I read, the more I get hooked. The character creation is perfect and successful. It is a very interesting novel with ups and downs in the plot. I look forward to updates [like][like][like][like][like].
It's okay. It's interesting to read. Very good and refreshing article.
This is a masterpiece worth reading and worth recommending
It surpasses some novels of the same type. Come on, the author, you deserve five stars.
It's beautiful, so beautiful that you can't stop watching it. I highly recommend it.
It's beautiful, so beautiful that you can't stop watching it. I highly recommend it.
Well written, this is the best novel I have seen on Tomato recently.
It's quite good. I don't usually write reviews. It's really well written. I highly recommend listening to the book.
The author's description technique is good. Worth learning
The author's writing style is delicate and smooth, and you can feel that the author has put great care into it.
This book is good and cleverly designed, five-star recommendation.
The sense of immersion is very strong, there is a lot of sense of immersion, [like][like][like]
The descriptions of characters and emotions are very vivid and vivid
The structure is clear and the content is substantial, very beautiful.
The rhythm is tight. Interlocking and fascinating
The content is real and colorful, and the layers are progressively fascinating.
This book is quite good, with a reasonable plot and brilliant writing. The more you read, the better it gets.
The author's writing style is exquisite and the characters depicted are lifelike and lifelike.
The part where Lin Mengxi was attacked and killed late at night was so cool! Hitting the head with a stone + popping a beer bottle, no weak scenes, the heroine is full of aura
The characters are vividly drawn and well written.
The plot is fascinating and the story is wonderful and interesting.
The plot is clean and neat without any lag, and it's quite enjoyable.
Nice. The storyline is fascinating and the characters have distinct personalities.
Good work, good writing, exciting content, five-star review.
The "ambivalent mother-daughter relationship" between Lin Mengxi and her mother illustrates the love and hurt of a Chinese-style family. While her mother touched her head and said "I love you", she scolded her as a "waste"; while teaching her to "keep your head high and fight back", she denied the possibility of her being loved. This kind of contradictory education has caused Lin Mengxi to live in "self-doubt" since she was a child - she doesn't know whether her mother's love is true, and she can't believe in anyone's protection. In the first five chapters, Lin Mengxi did not seek help from her mother after being attacked, but chose to solve the problem herself. This is the inevitable result of this kind of education: her mother's love was full of denial and control, which made her lose the courage to rely on her. The mother's "Don't imagine that someone loves you" seems to be a sober warning, but in fact it is passing on her own trauma to her daughter - perhaps the mother has also been hurt by love, so she feels that "if you don't expect it, you won't be hurt." But the side effect of this kind of education was that it made Lin Mengxi hard and lonely. She had the courage to fight back, but she did not feel the softness of love. The same is true for many families in reality. Parents use the name of "for your own good" to convey their own fears and traumas. Love and hurt are intertwined, making it difficult for people to break free. Lin Mengxi's resistance is not only a resistance to the stalker, but also an implicit resistance to this "suffocating love" - she wants to prove that she can live a good life without relying on others.
The cycle of violence in their native families has formed two extremes in Gu Yebai and Lin Mengxi. Gu Yebai faced the burns caused by his mother Gu Yuehui's cigarette butt without any resistance or even took it for granted. This kind of "passive acceptance of violence" eventually turned him into a perpetrator - killing people to relieve his fatigue, stalking others, and venting his inner depression in extreme ways. Faced with her mother's "trash" insults and contradictory love, Lin Mengxi chose to "actively resist" - beating up the harassing boss and killing the stalker, and engraved in her bones what her mother taught her to "fight back with your head held high and your chest high". The two different ways of coping just confirm the dual impact of native domestic violence: it can either turn people into transmitters of violence, or turn people into extreme resisters. The mother's education to Lin Mengxi seemed to be "protection", but in fact it was to pass on her own fears to her daughter - "Don't believe that someone loves you." This kind of negative education made Lin Mengxi lose the ability to trust others, and she could only carry it on her own. Gu Yuehui's violence against Gu Yebai was a direct destruction, causing him to lose his normal emotional cognition and could only sink in the darkness. The harm caused to the family of origin is never single, it will affect a person's life in different ways.
Come, the author read with me, and I solemnly swear: starting from today, I will never update. I will not watch dramas, travel, or get sick. I will play no games, no hydrology. Strict self-discipline, cherishing time like gold, perseverance, hard work, advocating first-class, striving for brilliance, taking pleasure in coding, being tempered into steel, and worthy of readers, worthy of youth, and worthy of the future. As an author, I solemnly declare: I firmly believe that I am an excellent author. Coding is my bounden duty. I have unlimited potential and am not afraid of hardship! I can code words diligently. I am a keyboard in the dark and a guard on the Great Wall of Internet. I voluntarily dedicate my life to code words every day and every night.
The essence of Gu Yebai's "crazy character" is twisted loneliness and desire for control. In the first five chapters, he was obviously a hunter, but his rhythm was disrupted by his prey, Lin Mengxi: he was hit on the chin, kicked, and stepped on the head. Not only was he not angry but excited, he even said "Let's go to hell together." This kind of "masochistic tendency" is not unreasonable, but the product of long-term loneliness + abnormal family education - he said that he "has no friends except his mother" and kills people just to relieve his fatigue. It can be seen that there is no normal emotional connection in his world, and he can only seek a sense of existence through extreme means. Gu Yebai's "obsession" for Lin Mengxi is not so much love as the novelty of "finally finding a prey who doesn't play by the rules." He enjoys the excitement of being resisted and is eager to fill his loneliness by being "tied" (going to hell together). Some people find this crazy setting interesting because it breaks the traditional framework of the "perfect male protagonist" and is full of danger and tension; but others find it disgusting because it touches the bottom line of "violence" and "murder." In fact, the charm of the crazy character setting lies precisely in its "taboo feeling" - from a safe reading distance, we can peep into the darkness and distortion of human nature, feeling both fearful and curious. This is also the reason why this type of setting has endured for so long.
Come, the author read with me, and I solemnly swear: starting from today, I will never update. I will not watch dramas, travel, or get sick. I will play no games, no hydrology. Strict self-discipline, cherishing time like gold, perseverance, hard work, advocating first-class, striving for brilliance, taking pleasure in coding, being tempered into steel, and worthy of readers, worthy of youth, and worthy of the future. As an author, I solemnly declare: I firmly believe that I am an excellent author. Coding is my bounden duty. I have unlimited potential and am not afraid of hardship! I can code words diligently. I am a keyboard in the dark and a guard on the Great Wall of Internet. I voluntarily dedicate my life to code words every day and every night.
Fang Zhuoyan's "Silly Baitian" hides the most poignant contradiction between lovers: the imbalance between sincerity and boundary. In the first five chapters, he sent live toads and grilled skewers and bouquets of flowers. Each gift was sincere with "I think about you" - the toads bring wealth and the grilled skewers bring food to the family. However, this "self-impressed romance" completely ignored Lin Mengxi's feelings. What makes people even more uncomfortable is his behavior of "mudging his shirt and smelling it", which seems to be intimate, but in fact it seriously crosses the line and invades the other person's personal space. In reality, many couples will encounter similar problems: one party feels that "I am good to you" can break the boundary, but the other party feels offended. Fang Zhuoyan's "silliness" lies in his ignorance of "respect" and regards "self-movation" as "love". This sincere and outrageous way of getting along makes people think it is funny, but also makes people reflect: "good" between lovers, is "I want to give you" or "what do you need"? The cute thing about Fang Zhuoyan is that he is pure and has no evil intentions, but this kind of "pure transgression" is often more difficult to deal with than deliberate harm - accusing him seems to be making a fuss, and not accusing him will wrong him. This is probably the sweet trouble of "silly and sweet boyfriend".
The writing is very good and the story is very interesting. The sense of immersion in the story is very good. The more I read, the more I get hooked. The character creation is perfect and successful. It is a very interesting novel with ups and downs in the plot. I look forward to updates [like][like][like][like][like].
It's okay. It's interesting to read. Very good and refreshing article.
This is a masterpiece worth reading and worth recommending
It surpasses some novels of the same type. Come on, the author, you deserve five stars.
It's beautiful, so beautiful that you can't stop watching it. I highly recommend it.
It's beautiful, so beautiful that you can't stop watching it. I highly recommend it.
Well written, this is the best novel I have seen on Tomato recently.
It's quite good. I don't usually write reviews. It's really well written. I highly recommend listening to the book.
The author's description technique is good. Worth learning
The author's writing style is delicate and smooth, and you can feel that the author has put great care into it.
This book is good and cleverly designed, five-star recommendation.
The sense of immersion is very strong, there is a lot of sense of immersion, [like][like][like]
The descriptions of characters and emotions are very vivid and vivid
The structure is clear and the content is substantial, very beautiful.
The rhythm is tight. Interlocking and fascinating
The content is real and colorful, and the layers are progressively fascinating.
This book is quite good, with a reasonable plot and brilliant writing. The more you read, the better it gets.
The author's writing style is exquisite and the characters depicted are lifelike and lifelike.
The part where Lin Mengxi was attacked and killed late at night was so cool! Hitting the head with a stone + popping a beer bottle, no weak scenes, the heroine is full of aura
The characters are vividly drawn and well written.
The plot is fascinating and the story is wonderful and interesting.
The plot is clean and neat without any lag, and it's quite enjoyable.
Nice. The storyline is fascinating and the characters have distinct personalities.
Good work, good writing, exciting content, five-star review.