A "loveless person" who is addicted to the feeling of being chased, and an "uninhibited person" who has read a thousand things but is willing to go in one direction, together complete a two-way experience of self-awareness and emotional growth. Realistic, delicate psychological analysis, a growth story with warmth and dull pain. Is it the other person we love, or ourselves when we are loved? The dialectic between "loving" and "being loved": Enjoying being loved is instinct, but learning to love others is a higher level of growth.