As a Human Being, You Must Learn to Turn Your Back.

Compromise again and again in exchange for advancement; every kindness is taken for granted? You persuade yourself to "put peace first," but you find that the grievances in your heart have already piled up. In fact, the root of the problem does not lie in the "conflict" itself, but in our lack of a key wisdom - the courage and art of "turning the other side". This is not to teach you to lose control of your emotions or be aggressive, but to teach you to re-examine the "boundary laws" in interpersonal relationships. True cultivation requires both gentleness and tolerance, as well as the confidence not to be angry or assertive. Those who live a relaxed and comfortable life are not born lucky, but they understand early on that kindness without edge is weakness; tolerance without bottom line will eventually become indulgence. This book will take you through a complete journey from "self-awakening" to "realm sublimation". You will learn how to identify the relationship traps that consume you, how to express your position in a firm yet graceful way, and how to hold your own bottom line in the workplace, family, and friendships. Falling out is not the end of the relationship, but a cleanup - filtering out the false feelings and leaving the sincerity. It's time: say goodbye to that tired "good old guy" and live a gentle but firm self. Your bottom line is the starting point of your strength.