Disobeying Parents and Marrying Far Away, Struggling to Survive Alone After Paying Wrongly

This story tells the story of a woman's journey from fantasy to sobriety to disappointment and awakening: before marriage, she noticed her husband's lack of responsibility due to a "betrothal gift loan", but it was covered up by her feelings. After marriage and pregnancy, she lived alone with her savings and father's subsidies, and her husband was absent for a long time. When she had her second child, she was blocked by her mother-in-law. After following her husband to the workplace, she fell into the dilemma of poor accommodation, frequent quarrels, divorce rejections, and financial constraints. Finally, she gave up her obsession with divorce and decided to wait patiently for her children to grow up and take the initiative through work. She used her own experience to warn women: without absolute financial security, it is not easy to get married, get pregnant, and have children. Marriage is not a matter for two people, it is a matter for two families. Don't make a decision easily without knowing the character of each other and their family members. Marriage is an opportunity to choose your loved ones personally! This article describes the grievances and struggles of married women, and also contains the courage to go from forbearance to giving up on relationships and starting over again. It is suitable for everyone who is confused in marriage to read.