I Overestimated Human Kindness and Underestimated the Complexity of Reality

The book describes human nature very realistically, and it is very common in our daily lives. No matter what you do, you must first understand human nature before you can communicate with others normally. I remember when I was in school, the teacher always taught us to get along peacefully and kindly, and to be kind to strangers. But the reality is that the kinder you are, the easier it is to be let down, and the better your character, the easier it is to be deceived. After reading this book, I gradually understood that getting along with others does not mean that if I treat you well, you will treat me well. The essence of relationships is the exchange of interests. Think about whether this person is of value to you, and then consider whether to get along with him or not!

It's awesome, the point of view is sharp and realistic, why don't so many people watch it?

What the author said is true, and it is true. Of course, people who have never experienced it may not feel it deeply. It is better to understand it in advance than to be confused after actually facing it.

It is very close to real life and can save you a lot of detours.

Learned, this is life

Very realistic and true, it explains a lot of things

Very well written and worth learning. It is well written and has a profound analysis of human nature. It is worth collecting.

It's very real, beautiful, and very close to real life. It's worth reading again and again, it will be of great help to your own growth.

A book about sobriety in the world, worth reading

Wow, it's so beautiful. I've become enlightened a lot.