Is it worth it to take root in a strange city for an uncertain love?
Is it worth waiting for three years for one year of love?
Is it worth it to almost fall into the abyss and break your wings to love someone?
Dahuang wrote the answer with actions: worth it.
He rooted her roots into her soil, and she sprouted branches because of his determination;
He stayed at dawn and dusk for three years, and it took her two years and three months to understand his persistence;
He faced the storm for her, and she held hands with him to split the thorns.
This kind of "worthiness" is never a unilateral bet -
It's not the sadness of "I gave up the whole world for you",
It is the sobriety of "I pay for you just because you are worthy of being loved and I can afford the price."
The most touching "worthiness" of love,
It's "I become a tougher tree for you",
It's "You turn into warmer sunshine for me",
It's two souls giving and responding,
Write "we" instead of "I" and "you".
Sober love is never a solo dance of self-consumption,
But the coordinates are bidirectionally calibrated——
When I crossed a thousand miles for you, you were holding a light and watching at the end of the thousand miles;
When I risked my courage, you had already written the rest of your life as my answer.
After all, the best love is "I travel thousands of miles for you, and you happen to be waiting for me at the end of the thousand miles."
Reader comments
True love is not one-sided sacrifice, but two-way growth and response. The reason why Dahuang's experience is so touching is that the interaction between him and Xiaobai formed a positive cycle of "giving - responding - giving more firmly".
True love is not one-sided sacrifice, but two-way growth and response. The reason why Dahuang's experience is so touching is that the interaction between him and Xiaobai formed a positive cycle of "giving - responding - giving more firmly".