Falling in Love Is Not About Playing House

Are There Any Novels With a Female Lead Who Has Strong Character Appeal? Romance Is Optional

The female lead doesn't necessarily have to be strong. What matters most is vivid, well-rounded characterization and a stable core. Alternatively, something more realistic, by an author with a strong sense of real life, would also be great.

Any Recommendations That Aren’t Stupid, With Plots That Make Sense and Reflect Human Nature?