Sometimes the deepest wisdom comes from the purest perspective. Lin Wei realized that she did not need to choose between a "strong woman" and a "coquettish woman". She could be both a strong leader and a gentle wife and mother; she could be independent and know how to seek support. This complete self-knowledge gives her more satisfaction and peace than any professional achievement. The stars in the night sky still twinkle, as if blinking in recognition of this simple yet profound truth.