The days of raising a child alone are like an "extreme challenge" without intermission. Those moments known as the "gate to hell" hide the collapse and persistence of countless mothers (or fathers). Everyone who raises a child alone has probably encountered these moments at one time or another:
1. "Double-front battle" for meals
I had just coaxed the baby into the dining chair and turned around to warm up some food. There was already a scream behind me - he was wiping the complementary food on his head, and the dining chair was in a mess. I finally managed to hold him down and feed him a few mouthfuls, but my own rice had already become cold, so I could only take a few bites while he was grabbing the toys, choking and staring. What's even more desperate is that as soon as you picked up the bowl, he suddenly started crying and wanted to be hugged. He was holding a "little bomb" in his arms, with grains of rice on the ground under his feet, and half a mouthful of rice in his mouth. At that moment, even his breathing was messed up.
2. The sleeper's "infinite loop night"
After finally coaxing you to sleep, you tiptoed to lie down flat, but before you even touched the bed, you woke up with a cry of "Wow"; you picked him up and patted him for half an hour, and then he started moaning again within five minutes of putting him down. He repeated this until three or four o'clock in the morning. You stared at the ceiling in a daze, feeling that your body was hollowed out, but you still had to hold on to prepare for his first "good morning" in the morning. If your child is sick, you have to hold her to sleep and physically cool her down all night. When dawn comes, you look at yourself in the mirror with panda eyes and messy hair, and you don't even have the strength to smile bitterly.
3. "Survival drill" for going out alone
If you want to take your baby to the supermarket, just preparing is like packing your luggage: diapers, wipes, spare clothes, bottles, snacks... Stuff the entire mother and baby bag. When you go out, hold the baby in one hand and carry the bag in the other, and beware of him reaching out...
