At the age of 30, You Zhaodi did two crazy things.
The first is to hold the household registration book and change the name with the mission of "recruiting a younger brother" and become You Lai - a Lai who has come over and is no longer someone's subordinate.
Second, on a rainy night, I gave it to a 20-year-old stranger for the first time in my life that I had treasured for half my life. He was an art student who sketched under the street lamp. He was so poor that he only had a paintbrush and the light in his eyes, but with his hot passion, he broke her old rule of "staying until the wedding night for the first time".
Five relationships taught her early on that love without sex is nothing but a mess.
Her best friend Jiang Chi is getting married, and she personally introduced the bride. Looking at the names on the invitation, she was shocked to realize that even being "forever friends" was pretentious.
From You Zhaodi to You Lai, she spent half her life getting rid of the label of "accessory". Whether her love turned into loose sand or fell into the mud, she finally lived her own name - You Lai, and came for herself.
And that 20-year-old boy was dedicated and affectionate. He really loved her and taught her how to love.