The More Relaxed the Parents, the Stronger the Children

"The more relaxed the parents are, the stronger the children will be" is an attempt to bring order to the chaos of "chicken tutoring" and "tiger mother tutoring". With many years of educational experience, the author puts forward the concept of "relaxation education" and introduces readers to the methods and directions for implementing relaxation education. Families that blame every problem will only teach children who want to escape, are timid, cover up their shortcomings, and lie. Only a family that knows how to be tolerant will gain a confident, brave, and sensible child. When something happens to a child, ten thousand words of "It's all your fault" are not as good as one sentence of "I'll be with you." We all need to tolerate, encourage, accept, and accompany our children to solve problems together. Don't keep silent when something is wrong with your parents. If you don't tell your own discomfort, it is easy to lose control and hurt the family. Tell our children frankly and let them assume the family responsibilities within their capabilities. Treat your children as friends. Parents should learn to let go and encourage their children to try and make mistakes on their own as long as safety is not involved. This can not only improve concentration and hands-on ability, but also enhance children's curiosity and desire to explore.