"The Reproductive System" is a sociological classic about marriage, childbirth and family. It was compiled and compiled based on Mr. Fei Xiaotong's university lectures. It is Mr. Fei Xiaotong's proud work.
The reproductive system refers to a set of activity norms in which men and women get married and give birth to children and raise them together.
Mr. Fei Xiaotong explained the essence of the reproductive system like a cocoon, for example: childbirth is a thing that harms oneself and benefits others; marriage is a means for society to determine parents for children; family is a basic social system. It subverts people's conventional views on marriage, childbirth, family, etc., And provides a profound and sober perspective for understanding and viewing the current issues and conditions of marriage and childbirth.
Reader comments
We may not play this game, but we must know the rules of the game. The logical point of view of this book shocked me deeply. Starting from the marriage system, marriage serves the purpose of procreation, the continuous metabolism of society, the continuity of the race and the stability of society. It has no necessary relationship with personal love, nor is it a requirement for personal happiness. What is coupled with the system must not be individual instinct. The great thing about culture is that you have learned it from childhood. It can penetrate into your bone marrow and control your brain. Of course it is the ego. You have never asked the reason, and you just take it for granted. Two things that were originally illogical have become a causal relationship with the blessing of culture. You will discover the power of inertial thinking. No one is threatening you with a knife, but you are being controlled. Mental control is more terrifying than the sword. Sometimes it is difficult for you to make changes even if you realize it, let alone you are not aware of it at all. If you get out of your ego, have self-awareness and thinking, and can continuously learn and expand your cognition on your own, you may find your true self when dealing with yourself.
If we choose a small path and choose not to participate in this game, we must first have the ability to choose freely, that is, to accept the process and the consequences that we can bear, and to be responsible for ourselves. Then it is OK to follow your own ideas. There is no one road that is better than another. Each has its own scenery and risks. The road you choose now is the best road. Obviously most people will choose this road and choose to participate in the game, so how to play this game well. The book says that a good marriage must first understand each other, and secondly, have the willingness and ability to integrate with each other. Become a teammate who cooperates in social cooperation and care for each other first, and then a lover who has similar interests and emotional support. This is an ideal state, but the reality is very cruel. This society only emphasizes being teammates. When we have more freedom to make our own choices, will we be better off than in the previous era when our parents dictated our decisions and the matchmaker's words dictated our decisions? They struggle through pain, and we experience disillusionment after good things. Now that we have relative freedom, we need to have the ability to match it.
The next step in marriage must be childbirth, but of course that is not necessarily the case now. But in order to stabilize the social structure, people will use culture and systems to force everyone to think that this is an individual need. If you don't do this, you will be abnormal and abnormal. The child maintains the stability of the marriage. The two people have a common goal of progress. At the same time, they project part of their ideal self onto the child and willingly complete socialized upbringing. The article mentioned that children need socialization training from an early age. The last time I saw the term socialization training was about cats and dogs. The cognition given to us by culture is that children are part of themselves. If they are obedient, they are filial, otherwise they are unfilial. Times are constantly changing, and culture and cognition are constantly adapting to social development. With the enhancement of self-awareness and free thinking ability, there are more and more conflicts between the two generations.
Social science books were an untouched area for me. It turned out that the world I saw and understood was really too small. It feels like I am sitting in a well and looking at the sky. Each book piles up steps for me to look out. Books are the ladder of human progress, which is now embodied in my heart.
It provides an in-depth analysis of fertility, family, gender and social structure. It is simply an introductory book on sociology and is easy to understand. But it requires repeated reading to truly understand and enlighten you.
If you swallow it for the first time, you will only understand it half-underlying. You need to read it again and again before you can understand it.
Okay, Fei Lao's best book
Explain the profound things in a simple way, popular and profound
It is worth meeting and reading to improve your understanding of marriage, parenting, family, society, etc. It is easy to understand!
Suitable for people who want to wake up
The macro narrative is really fun to read
Ox, god, professional, strong logic.
As expected, I cannot accept the use of electronic devices to read social science books. I have purchased physical books. I recommend reading them in conjunction with evolutionary psychology [top post]
Very advanced point of view
People who are confused about whether to have children or whether to get married can really read it. It is a book that is not out of date.
Many questions in life are answered here. I have never understood the meaning of marriage and why we should get married and have children step by step.
It's a bit hard to understand, it's very logical, but it explains marriage and childbirth very thoroughly.
Very classic, many conclusions hit the nail on the head
Read often, always new, Mr. Fei needs no words
A sociology classic that explains the essence of childbearing and marriage!
We may not play this game, but we must know the rules of the game. The logical point of view of this book shocked me deeply. Starting from the marriage system, marriage serves the purpose of procreation, the continuous metabolism of society, the continuity of the race and the stability of society. It has no necessary relationship with personal love, nor is it a requirement for personal happiness. What is coupled with the system must not be individual instinct. The great thing about culture is that you have learned it from childhood. It can penetrate into your bone marrow and control your brain. Of course it is the ego. You have never asked the reason, and you just take it for granted. Two things that were originally illogical have become a causal relationship with the blessing of culture. You will discover the power of inertial thinking. No one is threatening you with a knife, but you are being controlled. Mental control is more terrifying than the sword. Sometimes it is difficult for you to make changes even if you realize it, let alone you are not aware of it at all. If you get out of your ego, have self-awareness and thinking, and can continuously learn and expand your cognition on your own, you may find your true self when dealing with yourself. If we choose a small path and choose not to participate in this game, we must first have the ability to choose freely, that is, to accept the process and the consequences that we can bear, and to be responsible for ourselves. Then it is OK to follow your own ideas. There is no one road that is better than another. Each has its own scenery and risks. The road you choose now is the best road. Obviously most people will choose this road and choose to participate in the game, so how to play this game well. The book says that a good marriage must first understand each other, and secondly, have the willingness and ability to integrate with each other. Become a teammate who cooperates in social cooperation and care for each other first, and then a lover who has similar interests and emotional support. This is an ideal state, but the reality is very cruel. This society only emphasizes being teammates. When we have more freedom to make our own choices, will we be better off than in the previous era when our parents dictated our decisions and the matchmaker's words dictated our decisions? They struggle through pain, and we experience disillusionment after good things. Now that we have relative freedom, we need to have the ability to match it. The next step in marriage must be childbirth, but of course that is not necessarily the case now. But in order to stabilize the social structure, people will use culture and systems to force everyone to think that this is an individual need. If you don't do this, you will be abnormal and abnormal. The child maintains the stability of the marriage. The two people have a common goal of progress. At the same time, they project part of their ideal self onto the child and willingly complete socialized upbringing. The article mentioned that children need socialization training from an early age. The last time I saw the term socialization training was about cats and dogs. The cognition given to us by culture is that children are part of themselves. If they are obedient, they are filial, otherwise they are unfilial. Times are constantly changing, and culture and cognition are constantly adapting to social development. With the enhancement of self-awareness and free thinking ability, there are more and more conflicts between the two generations. Social science books were an untouched area for me. It turned out that the world I saw and understood was really too small. It feels like I am sitting in a well and looking at the sky. Each book piles up steps for me to look out. Books are the ladder of human progress, which is now embodied in my heart.
It provides an in-depth analysis of fertility, family, gender and social structure. It is simply an introductory book on sociology and is easy to understand. But it requires repeated reading to truly understand and enlighten you. If you swallow it for the first time, you will only understand it half-underlying. You need to read it again and again before you can understand it.
Okay, Fei Lao's best book
Explain the profound things in a simple way, popular and profound
It is worth meeting and reading to improve your understanding of marriage, parenting, family, society, etc. It is easy to understand!
Suitable for people who want to wake up
The macro narrative is really fun to read
Ox, god, professional, strong logic.
As expected, I cannot accept the use of electronic devices to read social science books. I have purchased physical books. I recommend reading them in conjunction with evolutionary psychology [top post]
Very advanced point of view
People who are confused about whether to have children or whether to get married can really read it. It is a book that is not out of date.
Many questions in life are answered here. I have never understood the meaning of marriage and why we should get married and have children step by step.
It's a bit hard to understand, it's very logical, but it explains marriage and childbirth very thoroughly.
Very classic, many conclusions hit the nail on the head
Read often, always new, Mr. Fei needs no words
A sociology classic that explains the essence of childbearing and marriage!