Who Will Find Peace in a Small Boat?

I'd like to ask all the readers here: if the world you live in now were a virtual game world (which is actually the case), what kind of person would you want to be? What kind of life would you want to lead? What kind of experiences would you want to have? If everything in our lives were determined by the "beliefs" stored in our memory banks, and we viewed "beliefs" as the "settings" that shape how the game unfolds, we'd see more clearly how beliefs are connected to everything in our lives: our character's attributes and every situation we encounter all operate according to these settings. The settings implanted in us from childhood shape every circumstance we face. If this is how life works, and we know it, how should we live? How can we gain freedom in life? How can we get the life we want? How can we reset everything about our characters? This isn't about the law of attraction, about drawing what I want into my life. Rather, if life has no limits and belief is the only limit, and if everything can be reset, what kind of person do I want to be? What kind of life do I want to lead? Or, if life is merely a virtual reality game, then what exactly is the real life that exists outside the game?