The Ti That Bends the Waist

I've almost finished reading it, and I haven't read the last few. It's quite good, but I kept reading it vaguely. At first, I said that the heroine was the only most favored princess in her family, but after the death of the heroine's father, her other family members' attitude towards the heroine was completely different. They were indifferent and alienated to the point of breaking all ties. I also felt that setting up the death of the heroine's father was inexplicable and redundant. Originally, the heroine came to get married, but in the future she would have almost nothing to do with her mother's family. It was superfluous to also set up a drama about the death of her father and the abandonment of her relatives. Was it to make her completely an orphan? Also, sometimes I feel that the heroine is quite pretentious. When Wei Yan wanted her to go back to Bianzhou with him, she refused to say that she had something to deal with. But later on, I didn't see what the author said about what she did, so it seemed that she just refused to go. Anyway, there are many places in the whole story that are quite inexplicable, but I can still read it.

It feels very confusing, sometimes from this perspective, sometimes from that perspective