The Whole World Is Under Heavy Pressure at the End of Ming Dynasty

What should an ordinary person do if he takes over a paralyzed wife in the troubled times of the late Ming Dynasty, but is snatched away by a bandit? I just met a talented woman with whom my soul is compatible, but she is kidnapped by the court. What should I do? There is no system, no superpowers, not a scientist, not a medical scientist, not a special soldier, he is just an ordinary person. The fat woman stalks her, the protagonist repeatedly refuses, but in the end he is willing to marry her sincerely. How unpredictable things are in this world! People often cannot help themselves. Even if your thoughts are advanced and your knowledge is higher, so what. You must fight for power, violence, and financial resources before you can get ahead!