Parents in patriarchal families treat boys and girls differently, and countless bizarre and tearful things have happened in this family since childhood, and the impact of these things. The parents' actions have had an incredible impact on the girl's subsequent studies, career, marriage and many other aspects. The girl made a counterattack and made real changes after realizing that her parents did not truly love her. This book covers many aspects such as life, public examination, marriage and love, parents' relationship style, solitude, personal development, how to treat the elderly, making friends, families with many children, etc. Most of them come from personal experience.