Everything Happens in My Favor

It's a great book. It feels enlightening. I like the part where everything that happens is good for me and my reconciliation with my family of origin. I have known since I was a child that I am a timid person with low self-esteem. I dare not tell others my true thoughts or go on stage to show myself. I am particularly concerned about other people's opinions. Even with a look or movement from others, I will wonder if they are talking about me or if I have done something wrong. My heartbeat is very fast and I am very nervous. But at that time, I did not dare to admit that I had low self-esteem. It wasn't until I got to college that I dared to understand myself correctly and wanted to change, but change was really difficult. No matter how many books I read and how much knowledge I learned about self-growth, I still cared about other people's opinions. Even after a long time, I still doubted myself and denied myself when I heard from my former colleagues that a boss with whom I had a close relationship said that I couldn't even do small things well. I know that my low self-esteem is related to my family of origin. My father has a bad personality. No matter who he is, he will yell at anyone who does something slower. He has never praised me since I was a child. He only told me that I am not good and tells me to keep working hard. I have a father but no father's love. The only family warmth I have is given to me by my mother. But my mother will also say that I am timid and cowardly and say that I dare not talk to others. How can I gain a foothold in society when I grow up? I remember that I was very lively and active when I was a child, but slowly it became like this. The pressure has been increasing recently, and I have become more and more frustrated. Just like the author said, I have lost interest in life. There seems to be nothing worth looking forward to in life. I read "If there is no activity in Moments and all social accounts, then what is the difference between life and scraps of paper thrown into the sewer?" (The author is probably That's what you say) When I said this, I was shocked to realize that my life is so boring. I haven't posted in Moments for a year, and I have nothing on my social accounts. I obviously have moments that make me happy, but I ignore all these beautiful things, and my life is just sighing. I am very happy to find this book when I was at my lowest. It resonated with me and let me know that I am not bad. My shortcomings are allowed. I don't have to live like what others see. I just stay away from those who make me unhappy. I have a person who loves me very much. Every time we meet, he will praise me for my good looks and my cuteness. He encourages me when I am confused, tells me that I am excellent, and that I will be better in the future. I am very happy to meet him when I am at a low point in my life. I will slowly change myself and affirm myself over and over again according to the method taught by the author. I will definitely become a person who is strong in heart and loves life. I hope everyone like me can be brave enough to love themselves, and I hope the author will get better and better.

The language is incisive, the expressions are on point, the tone is interesting, and the atmosphere is relaxed, just like the Cantonese clear chicken soup, delicious and not greasy. Although I didn't like the name at first, it looked really nice. I was stereotyped. Short videos are harmful. I need such delicious and tasteful books. If anyone has seen something similar to this one, please recommend it to me.

Because of the continuous failure in the postgraduate entrance examination and the public placement examination, the failure lasted for eight years. After preparing for the blow again and again, I turned into a very pessimistic person, who was obviously very cheerful and optimistic before. I have read several other books of Lao Yang's Owl before, but this time I saw it was the author's new book. I read it decisively. Thanks to the publisher for providing three days of free reading. People who are not in a similar situation may not be able to appreciate how appropriate the examples in this book are. I feel like every sentence is tailor-made for me. I wish I could copy and record the whole book. In the past few days, as I read, I felt like I was completely reborn, because the confusion caused by failure was also baptized by the calm attitude permeated in this book. I feel that I am free from the oppression of reality, and I feel a rare sense of ease and ease. I feel happier when I look at many problems from a different perspective. Thanks to this book for giving me the strength to regain a new life, which made this unsatisfactory time less difficult. It also allowed me to resurrect with full blood, grasp the focus, and start the next life. Come on come on!

Thank you for encountering this book when I was confused, confused, and eager to change. Most of the chapters made me sigh: Yes, yes! That's how I am! I personally think that the core truth this book tells us is: focus on yourself, take care of yourself, love yourself, and you are your best companion. As long as we are strong ourselves, no matter how the outside world views or treats us, it will not cause any waves in our hearts, because my heart is indestructible. How to become strong requires us to act immediately, work hard to do what we need to do at the moment, and persist. Even if there is only a little progress every day, you are getting better and better.

People like me who are sensitive, like to be good people, and don't know how to say no will definitely have many, many feelings after reading this. It turns out that saying no is so simple. The author gave many examples that made me realize that being myself is not as difficult as I thought. Saying no to requests you don't want to accept and staying away from some people don't require you to find so many reasons for yourself. You don't need to think about how they will feel after you reject them. Taking care of your own life is the most important thing❤️

Although I didn't understand everything, and I didn't fully agree with some parts, I still benefited from reading this book. The author's language is humorous and hit the nail on the head, which makes people feel pain. Some of these ideas were in directions I hadn't thought of before and broadened my thinking. I am lucky enough to read this book, and I hope that this book can help more people understand themselves better and love themselves more ૮ ´͈ ᗜ `͈ ა♡

I particularly like Lao Yang's books. Every time I read them, I feel like I'm chatting with an old friend, and then my heart suddenly becomes enlightened. They are all from the Northeast, and I can understand what they say. It feels very cordial, and I will continue to support you.

This book really gets better and better the more I read it, and some of its words are enlightening. Recommended for everyone to read so that you can face yourself better and live a better life

It's very down-to-earth and close to life. I feel the same way a lot. It seems to be talking about myself. It also gives me a broader understanding. I know my own problems and how to solve them. It's very beneficial [Love]

I don't wish you to be born beautiful, I don't wish you have extraordinary talents, I don't wish you to be born brave, I don't wish you to be well-behaved and sensible. I just wish you have enough wonderful blank spaces in your life, I wish you can cut off the secular vision again and again, and I wish you live happily and cheerfully in the turbulent sea of ​​people. May you be as passionate as fireworks and live a crackling life.

I really like a sentence in it: You just need to remember that there are only two kinds of things in the world: one is good things, and the other is things you don't know the good things about yet.

This book is very useful to me. For a newly graduated college student, when facing society, I will inevitably feel anxious and overwhelmed. I will read this book. It is very comprehensive and has many golden sentences. It can make you calm down and think, and it can also guide you to develop in the direction you want to develop. Sure enough, books can soothe the impetuousness of human hearts. I recommend everyone to read it.

I finally finished reading it. My friends had been recommending the author before, and I found it on Xiaohongshu some time ago. I felt compelled to read it. At first glance, it suited me very well. Every sentence clicked on me and I gained a lot! ! !

It's very good. It solved the problems that have puzzled me for many years and taught me how to behave. Some things I thought about but didn't understand finally came to light at this moment. After reading a few chapters, my breathing became smoother and it became relatively easy to fall asleep.

When I read the title, I thought it was another poisonous chicken soup, but when I opened it, I was attracted by it. There are many golden sentences and every word is exquisite. I have never been able to read any book in one sitting. This book is an exception! Highly recommended

All right! I usually read paper books. I heard about it on Himalayas and couldn't wait to read it. It's novel and long-lasting. It's perfect for people like me who don't have a strong heart and don't dare to reject others. I read it in 4 days and read it again this morning [laugh][laugh][laugh]

It's very well said. People should live like this, so that they won't be anxious, be happy, and cherish the way they live now.

The author is really "down to earth" and makes me always "thinking"!

It is a book worth reading again and again. You can learn a lot and it will make you calm down unconsciously.

The language is easy to understand and humorous. After reading it, I was enlightened and enlightened. I felt that everything that happened in my life was nothing. After reading it, I felt much better. This book will always be on my bookshelf and I will read it over and over again to inspire myself and become a better version of myself.

I feel like I can hit the nail on the head and say something so that I can let go of some things.

I have benefited a lot and it has brought a lot of relief to my stubborn personality.

Watched it for the second time, it makes me feel calm and empowered after reading it.

This is a very good book. Reading the words in this book makes your heart more open and comfortable. Your heart becomes brighter and your life becomes brighter.

It's very good, very real, and very relevant to what I need to grow in practice. I've learned a lot! Great book!

Healing, look at when you are depressed.

It makes sense, and feels like an enlightenment. Keep your eyes on yourself, nothing else matters.

The more I looked at it, the more I kept looking up, and I couldn't stop. Good books are rare.

I love this book so much! Very healing! Very bright! [Top post]

This book can help you save yourself from dire straits and is worth reading.