"You've been watching TV all night and still haven't done your homework!"
"Aren't you just taking care of the child?"
"It's your fault that the project failed."
"I don't engage in interpersonal relationships. People who do that are incompetent people."
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Why do we often fail to communicate, or even have the opposite effect?
The main reason is that we lack empathy. In communication, we always hope to achieve our own expectations by changing others, which often results in conflicts and tragedies.
Teacher Dong has been immersed in the study of non-violent communication for many years, and applies empathy to family relationships, parent-child education, conflict mediation, interpersonal communication, organizational development and other aspects, helping us to improve our inner connection, so that we can express ourselves honestly, listen empathetically to other people's feelings, and see the deep needs of others, so as to achieve heart-to-heart connections between people, achieve win-win results, and gain beauty and happiness.
Reader comments
It's very good. It helps me realize my own shortcomings and how to communicate correctly with my relatives and friends.
It's very good. It helps me realize my own shortcomings and how to communicate correctly with my relatives and friends.