
Who Hasn't Loved a Bad Boy?
谁不曾爱过个把坏男孩
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- Completed
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- 145k Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Featured Fiction
- Audience
- Female
- Updated
- 1y ago
- Source
- Fanqie
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2.7kReads
8.6Score
400Shelves
10Chapters
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谁不曾爱过个把坏男孩
The writing is very good, very real, and very bloody. In fact, the choice of the heroine is the choice of most women in reality. There are too few women who can really move forward. This book also warns everyone not to turn back. If you are too obsessed, you will be the one who suffers in the end.
It writes about the love between men and women in a very realistic, touching and clear way. People who have no love experience may be shocked and angry when reading this book. However, the story described has indeed appeared in life. This is a warning against falling into the whirlpool of love. You must keep your eyes open and feel with your heart, and you must be decisive and perseverant to be yourself and love yourself. The heroine cannot let go of her forgiveness over and over again, because it is always difficult under the influence of her family and her own character and thoughts. Among them, Lin Zhen and another girl who loves children are also depicted in a very delicate and realistic way.
Pathological love really hurts both sides. The female protagonist loves and hates the male protagonist, but she always abuses her. It is a gaslighting effect, and she cannot fight back or scold her. Her upbringing left her without a screening mechanism or the awareness to stop losses in time. Sadly, she met such a man when she first fell in love, and a long time was wasted on such a person. The author has softened the ending arrangements for the heroine. The other two heroine friends may also reflect the other two endings. The character of the male protagonist does have someone to compare with in reality, but his original wife in reality made him pay a heavy price. This book is still worth reading.
After reading this, I was particularly opposed to this approach (there is a saying in psychology called the desensitization stage, which roughly means facing the pain head on. Use up your love, smooth out your self-esteem, and knock down the south wall. To put it bluntly, if you can't forget someone, go to him, put down your self-esteem and pride, and put your love openly in front of him. , See how he rejects you and hurts you. He says every cruel word, does every decisive thing, polishes off his self-esteem, and exhausts his love. Finally, you wake up and start over with your defeated self. This is probably the saying that you should not give anyone the opportunity to hurt yourself. After being hurt, you should not have any hope in the relationship with this person, and you should rationally leave everything about this person immediately and start a new life. Don't try to find any excuses or reasons for this person. It is extremely unjust to feel guilty as a victim.
The writing is very delicate, the heroine's character is repeatedly pushed to collapse, love and hate are intertwined, and it also shows that people's bad nature cannot be changed [awkward laugh][awkward laugh]
It's so beautiful that I couldn't stop watching it. It brought into the author's emotions. We were both angry and despaired together. However, we didn't feel the same hope as the author. We were just obsessed with the authorities, but bystanders understood clearly. There are many illegal things in this book [Shocked] One is Su's miscarriage, and the other is the heroine Saffron's miscarriage. These are all human lives. Why are they not punished accordingly?
In short, this is a story of an honest man sleeping around after being betrayed by a scumbag. It has the atmosphere of a disco in the 1980s with cheap glass light balls spinning around, and there is also an expectation that something very bloody may become even more bloody.
No one who has personally experienced it can describe this feeling. The lack of love in childhood will take its toll. I can completely understand why the protagonist forgives Zhao Fuzhi several times. There is really no other way. She needs love, a home, and emotional sustenance! She was helpless and watched helplessly as the person who once loved her hurt her again and again, giving her hope even when her body was bruised and bruised. Like a fish out of water, staring at death with eyes wide open. As long as someone is kind to her in a desperate situation, this person who lacks love to death will accept it immediately.
I finished reading it in two nights. It may be that I read it word for word slowly. It is not a good article to clear up for everyone in advance. If you want to read a good article, you don't have to read it. It is very frustrating. It is a forgive, forgive and forgive type. The ending will not be spoiled. However, it is very delicately written. The inner descriptions are very delicate. I completely understand the heroine. Although I do not agree with her actions, I completely understand the empathy for her. She has not been accompanied by her parents since she was a child. She wants a family so much in her heart. Her character is probably that she has not been loved since childhood and she wants to be loved so much. It was too lonely. After the divorce, it was like finally finding a fallen leaf in the harbor. It was once again blown up by the wind and forced to drift. She wanted a root to stop her drifting. She was terrified and longing. She finally decided to accept a new relationship. She could have a home with Zhou, but the balloon was punctured again. Finally, she chose Zhao. There was still a glimmer of hope in her heart. She was hit by Zhou. She probably listened to what Zhou said and was too lazy to get acquainted with others. She ate the straw but shit is still shit. You won't turn into chocolate because of those memories that you think are good. Although some people are indeed like this. After a long time, they think of the goodness of this person and choose to forgive. I can only say that everyone has their own feelings after reading it. A thousand people have a thousand opinions. I quite like it. I think human nature is like this multi-faceted. Some people are hesitant since childhood. They grow very slowly, but they are also growing. She just wants a home so that she, a tree without roots, can settle down in this city. She has no relatives in this world. Her friend Zhenzhen also has her own life to live. I can only wish her happiness. It is indeed very painful.
Although it is very bloody, it is very enjoyable to watch. The feeling of reading this book is different from other books. I feel very depressed, and my emotions are caught in it. I feel a little more pessimistic and vigilant about reality without realizing it. It is impossible to calculate how much the real situation differs from the plot in the book, but it feels a bit realistic when looking at it. What keeps me watching is my belief that the heroine will become better and better. As for whether this has come true, I can only say that she may have tried her best. Lin Zhen is a very complicated character that makes people love and hate her at the same time. He is like a savior who is forced to a certain extent and fantasizes about waking him up by scolding him, and he is like another sober self in the heroine's heart. In this book, you can see how far men can pretend, which is beyond your imagination. Using extreme writing to serve as a warning will make readers feel deeply shocked and learn a lesson, but after reading it, they will feel a little uncomfortable after reading it. At the end, the author restrained himself a lot and gave a fairly warm ending, but this is a novel after all, and the heroine's own conditions are actually good, so it should be difficult to have such an outcome in reality. No matter what relationship you are in, it is important to maintain your independence.
It is so well written, every sentence touches the heart, and human nature is vividly reflected, allowing women to better understand intimate relationships, how we should measure or rationally handle a relationship, so that we can avoid harm, and better understand and understand the many aspects and complexities of human nature.
I have to say it was well written and made me angry. But I always wanted to see the ending. All I can say is that the heroine deserves what she deserves. Don't mess with others. Just tie her to her ex-husband to death and play with each other in private for the rest of their lives.
A well-written novel, although Yu Ruowei's actions make people feel angry, sad for her misfortune, and angry at her. However, in real life, many women are like this. Ruowei has completely engraved Zhao Shizhi into her DNA. Even after the divorce, she can always think of him in many episodes of life, but it is also understandable. After all, it is the first love, and they have been together for more than ten years. I hope that the final muscular man is not Ruowei's fantasy, and the two of them live a good life together.
Very good. After reading this, I can think about a lot of things in my head. Men and women should first make their own lives wonderful. Remember, live for yourself, and others will be nothing.
It was very painful to write and I didn't even have the courage to finish it.
It's so beautiful, so well written, and the descriptions are delicate.
After reading it, the emotions are written very delicately. The heroine was tortured so badly in the front that I saw her having relationships with so many men later. I didn't even blame her, but this is really not a behavior worth advocating. I think that when girls are hurt, they should not follow others to hurt themselves. They should take legal measures to protect themselves instead of sleeping with so many men, which not only hurts themselves but also hurts others.
After reading this book, the biggest feeling I felt was scolding the heroine for not living up to expectations. I really hope that she will follow the routine of Shuangwen novels, fight back against the hero, attack everyone who hurts her, and keep herself awake... In the previous article, the author explained that the heroine is a person who avoids weakness. In the book, I often see the heroine being indecisive, sober and confused for a while, and people outside the book often feel anxious for her. I am anxious to see that the end of the book is not a very tragic ending nor a fairy tale that makes you tired of happiness. It seems to be a light ending on the long road of life. I think I am just analyzing the heroine's actions from a God's perspective. The heroine uses her current knowledge to deal with what she thinks is right. Sitting in the audience, we can only watch silently, summarize our experiences and reflect on ourselves. Besides, there is no other way.
Although the words are very narrative and the content is a bit vulgar, after reading this book for a whole night, I thought that I was dreaming again. It was so miserable that I could laugh out loud. Yes, it is the feeling that the heroine said. Only when you see others being miserable can you feel that reality is not bad.
This book is very interesting. If you read it carefully, in fact, many times I just want to say that from the perspective of a bystander, you may think that others are in love and are not clear-headed. In fact, it is because you are not in that state yourself. So how can I put it? The protagonist becomes that strange self one by one. It is very sad and sad. One of the reasons is that he does not love himself enough and does not put himself first. There is a lack of adequate sex education for the heroine. If you really read it, you will find magic but reality because no one can withstand the temptation, no matter male or female. In fact, you will find that when a person really does something wrong, it is like solving a problem. If one step is wrong in the middle, the next mistake will follow. Therefore, the heroine degenerated and became something she did not like before, but it is really normal. Why? Because sometimes you feel that your situation is so bad that there is no room for recovery, so you will let it go. This book is not a simple story. I think: I have understood several truths. Once you are unfaithful, you will never be unfaithful. The prerequisite for loving others is to love yourself first. I think it makes sense for big data to recommend this book to me. It means that I am destined to this book, and we should also do it. Solve problems rationally and calmly. When a mistake occurs, we must try our best to correct it. Don't regret it when the hole gets bigger and bigger and cannot be repaired. The author tells a story in a plain tone that may be his own experience. He is really courageous and calm. This is a deep thought as a sophomore. I have never experienced sex, but I would like to strictly supervise myself based on the lessons of others. I can also face betrayal without crying or making trouble and find the best result for myself. How can I put it, always put yourself first, give priority to your own feelings in everything, respect yourself, and learn to love yourself❤️ The author writes very well, I am afraid that if you are proud, you will lose one star⭐ Lin Zhen is the heroine's life mentor.
Seeing this, I felt an unknown fire rising to my cerebral cortex [crying] [crying] But
It's as real as the author's personal experience. I read this book in one sitting while I was on my period. I felt the pain of the heroine both mentally and physically. I saw a comment halfway through that Lin Zhen, Ruowei and Xiao Siyu might be the same person, ah, how uncomfortable it is. I hope the poor heroine can really be happy in the end.
I just love reading these old articles from the past. When I see these old articles, I think of the feeling I had when reading published novels. The new articles nowadays are so curious. Some of them are not good-looking, so look for old articles to change your appetite.
How should I put it? He writes vividly and is a very smart author.
Recommended by a friend, this book reminded me of a lot of things. It is very realistic. Human nature cannot stand the test. Of course, human nature does not need to be tested. It is good to know, unless you have a lucky mentality and think that fate will favor you throughout your life. You think that all the good things in the world will come to you, but this is almost impossible. As for Lin Zhen, I like her for being more transparent and decisive, but I still hate her because she really shouldn't change clothes in front of the heroine's boyfriend. The temptations again and again are really disgusting, which shows the complexity of human nature. The heroine later slept with many people, including the heroine's boyfriend and so on. In fact, she did not complete her revenge and did not make herself feel peaceful enough, but I guess that's what some people think in reality. It's like "you sleep with my boyfriend, and I will sleep with your boyfriend". This situation actually does not form a healthy growth for yourself, and will only make you more and more at a disadvantage. (I haven't finished reading it yet. I will continue my review after reading it)
I think this article is quite delicately written. But I also want to know, does this come from the author's personal experience? Or is it what happened to the author's friend? Such an inhuman man. Does it really exist in reality? I feel so terrible! I dare not fall in love even more. [Laughing and crying] Because I have never been in a relationship, I am curious whether the scumbag in real life and her ex-husband in the article are similar?
It is true and objective, although it is a little plain and reflects people's selfishness and darkness, but isn't this the embodiment of human nature and way of life? No one is selfless, only good people are driven crazy and do wrong things. What about people? I only saw an evil person and forgot all about the kindness before.
I have only read half of this book. It seems very frustrating so far. There is a kind of open fire that is too angry. That college classmate is really a rare noble person in her life. I always feel that her appearance really teaches the protagonist different things. Different things always happen in our lives. Sometimes letting go is also a way to move forward.
What you have can be easily broken. If you lose it and regret it, it will never be the same again. Move forward and don't look back.
You want to push me over... It's so awesome, I like it!