The Death Game in My Dreams

A Dominating Heroine Makes a Mistake Early On, Then Aggressively Pursues Her Husband Later

I'd like to read something like You Cared for the Neighbor's Little Brother, So Why Regret the Divorce? Are there any novels that aren't like the usual stories about chasing after a man? Urban fantasy or everyday urban life are both fine. I just want the female lead's personality to stay fairly consistent from beginning to end, with a bit of a strong female lead vibe.