
The Lin Family’s Daughter Comes of Age
林家有女初长成
- Status
- Completed
- Length
- 470k Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Entertainment Stardom
- Updated
- 1y ago
- Source
- Fanqie
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130Chapters
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Human beings learn to watch the behavior of their parents in their infancy, and constantly escalate their behavior to test the bottom line of their parents' tolerance, until they hit a wall and are verbally rejected by their parents. Only then will they give up. It is difficult for most parents to detect this kind of tentative behavior of children in daily education. Think back to when it comes to small things like whether you can buy a certain toy or whether you can go to the amusement park. If parents disagree, many children will cry to achieve their goals. However, when it comes to matters such as whether they can cross the road alone or whether they can go to the river to play, children generally will not bargain with their parents. What is the reason? It is that through accumulated observation and testing, children have understood where their parents' bottom line is. The bottom line for most parents is the safety of their children. Here, I suggest that parents set a higher bottom line based on their children's situation, such as not playing on mobile phones, not playing computer games, not lying, etc. Use these as the bottom line. Once the child is tempted, immediately and sternly refuse, and immediately let him hit the wall. Over time, he will no longer make more excessive demands.