Love is not always open and aboveboard. When love involves private goods - such as control and harm - it becomes self-righteous love. Although the starting point may be for the good of the other person, it deviates from the path of love due to a lack of true understanding and respect. This kind of love is often based on individual subjective assumptions and self-projection, ignoring the other person's true feelings and needs. In psychology, this reflects the intertwining of a desire for control and insecurity. Trying to fill the inner vacancy through giving often backfires, causing pain and alienation for both parties.
