The author was born in the northeastern countryside in the early 1970s, and grew up in a poor family with many children and in a small village with complicated interpersonal relationships. Witnessing the torment of the illness on my mother, and facing the "cold war" with my parents all day long, I once wanted to run away from home. However, I finally gave up the idea of running away because of my mother's many feelings. However, over time, I suffered from chest tightness. This problem made the author very painful and unable to concentrate on reading and studying. In the end, the author only passed the junior college. The problem of chest tightness has been with the author to this day. Whenever I read books or newspapers, the feeling of being on the verge of suffocation will "come back"
The author has been under the influence of his parents' cold war family environment for a long time, forming negative characters such as low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, which have affected the author's key life choices.
At the same time, the author was influenced by his mother's integrity, kindness and resolute character since childhood. When he grew up, he was not afraid of power, did not know how to adapt, and did not pay attention to dealing with interpersonal relationships. He only wanted to immerse himself in work wholeheartedly, and developed an upright character, almost taking into account personal interests and feelings.
The ultimate purpose of the author's writing is to remind parents to pay more attention to their children's mental health and emotional changes by writing about some of his life experiences, and to try to create a basic family environment and material conditions for their children. At the same time, parents are reminded to reflect and adjust their behavior in a timely manner, handle family relationships correctly, and create a harmonious family environment; educate and guide their children correctly so that they can grow up naturally, healthily, and happily.
The whole article seems to be mainly about tragedy, but in fact it contains inspiring and positive force.
