"When love happens, there is no reason or explanation." Jiang Yanrong, a talented female student, was often ignored by her parents because she was very poor in science. She wrote all her worries in her weekly diary. Kangnan was very concerned after seeing it and often cared about Jiang Yanrong. Gradually, these two people, who were more than 20 years apart in love, came together. Jiang Yanrong attempted suicide after failing the college entrance examination, and her parents found out about her love affair. Jiang's mother forced Kangnan to break up with her daughter, and even accused Kangnan of deception, which forced Kangnan to leave Taipei. A few years later, Jiang Yanrong married Li Liwei, who was chosen by her parents. After the marriage, she was suspected and abused by her husband. After the relationship broke down, she wanted to go to Kangnan, but found that Kangnan was no longer what she remembered. They could never go back to the past. Looking at the decadent Kangnan, Jiang Yanrong finally left sadly.
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This is the first time I have seen a book on Tomato without any typos. It is recognized as a masterpiece and is written by a recognized talented woman. It has rich content, rich language, and well-characterized characters. Many of the descriptions have a strong sense of picture. It is worth reading.
I watched the movie once and read the novel outside the window again. I felt that the novel was even more beautiful. The author's sonorous and powerful writing intoxicated me and made me unable to put it down. The love of the protagonist of the novel feels like he met the right person at the wrong time. There is an age gap of 20 years, and it is a teacher-student love. At that time and maybe now, most parents in China would not accept it. People live in society, and this kind of love is considered by most people to be against common sense. It is difficult for oneself and his family to avoid the influence of other people's judgment. Both protagonists eventually became victims of this incident. Kangnan went to a remote place to teach and lived in embarrassment. Jiang Yanrong's life after marriage was not happy.
I think there are two reasons why Jiang Yanrong fell in love with his teacher. First, Jiang Yanrong's literary talent was so outstanding, and Kang Nan was so talented. The two admired each other and had a strong spiritual resonance. The second point is written in the book that Jiang Yanrong did not study well in mathematics, physics and chemistry, had low self-esteem, and did not feel the love of his parents at home. However, he was warmed spiritually and psychologically by Kangnan, and he could not extricate himself from the love. Looking back on Jiang Yanrong's family life, I feel the same way. When I had a fight with my sister or brother, my father would unreasonably think it was my fault. I also felt that I was the least welcome person in the family. I also had bad thoughts about life. Later, my grades got much better, and my father's attitude towards me became much better. I am so ordinary, without Jiang Yanrong's special talent in a certain aspect, I healed those wounds alone in those painful days. After reading this book, I feel that I am not the only one who has had similar painful experiences, which comforts my soul. Now it has become a thing of the past. When I mention it again, the greatest significance may be to treat my own children in the future, understand and care for them, so that they will no longer have the experience I had before.
Finally, I must mention that when I read Aunt Qiong Yao's book for the first time, I lamented that Aunt Qiong Yao's writing was so good, her literary skills were high, her thoughts were profound, her insights were unique, and she touched the soul.
I like the outside window. The descriptions are very real and the psychological activities are delicate and touching. At that stage of life, there will be such children who are sensitive and suspicious. In fact, there is nothing wrong with life, it can only end like this. But I hope that the teacher will not lose his love and become depressed because he has gone through the ups and downs of life and should be more open-minded and pursue a new life.
I remember that when I was in middle school, I had a crush on that tall and handsome Chinese teacher, but I never dared to confess it in my dreams. Aunt Qiongyao wrote such a story with ups and downs, lingering and pathos. She is indeed the godmother of romance! Classic works are touching every time you read them.
It is so well written, as expected of everyone, it is unforgettable and has a strong sense of immersion.
After watching Pride and Prejudice, and then North and South, I suddenly wanted to watch some of the better works that mainly focus on emotions. So I read Aunt Qiong Yao's first novel "Outside the Window". Anyway, I really got into it. Although the writing style of the first novel may be a little too simple and straightforward, her dialogues are really well written and are naturally suitable for adaptation into TV series. , Looking at her dialogue, I can imagine the emotional changes of this character when he speaks this dialogue. The writing is really smooth, as if the words are really spoken by this person, unlike when I usually write novels, I feel very incoherent and fake. Then I think her portrayal and description of emotions is really talented. In her debut novel, she can describe the ups and downs of emotions so naturally, and the psychological description of each person is also very delicate and true. It's a teacher-student love, and it's the kind of teacher-student love with a big age difference, but you can understand why they are attracted to each other, and then you can also know that they are not relying on each other because of temptation as mentioned in the comments or because of their own immaturity, or an illusion caused by lack of love. I think they are really soul mates and really understand each other. When they are together, you don't want to notice their age difference at all, because when they talk, it feels like two unreserved hearts are in contact. In addition to the love part, the heroine's family, thoughts, life, and friendship are also painted a lot. I feel that there are many shadows of the author himself. Anyway, I think his parents, his brothers and sisters, I am really impressed. It's like you can't seem to feel their love, but you can't help but admit that they love you. It's just this kind of feeling that resonates with me.
Missing Qiong Yao, I read this work again.
Great master of love, thank you for allowing us to experience the various tastes of love in your books. You are as beautiful as snowflakes, crystal clear, and melt like snowflakes. I wish you all the best in heaven, love each other and connect with those who love you.
My heart felt heavy after reading this!
The tragedy caused by excessive interference from her parents made Qiong Yao's literary career possible!
This forbidden love, based on Qiong Yao's first love, is destined to be a love tragedy that ends without a problem.
The birth of this forbidden love was largely caused by the partiality and excessive harshness of Jiang Yanrong's parents. Jiang Yanrong could not feel the love of her parents and suffered repeated setbacks in her studies. When someone with outstanding talents, understanding and care for her appeared, she would naturally fall into it. And when the Jiang family's parents realized this relationship and discovered that they had unshirkable responsibilities, no matter how much they did, they would only make up for it. If he had given her enough love from the beginning, Jiang Yanrong might not have been so in love with Kangnan.
For Jiang Yanrong, Kang Nan may be more dependent, comforted, and a piece of driftwood to hold onto when drowning than love. Meeting someone who can give you love when you are lacking it is a fatal feeling.
I can understand that Jiang Yanrong would like Kangnan. But in my opinion, Kang Nan's romantic feelings for Jiang Yanrong are completely inappropriate. Little girls are not sensible. Do you still understand when you are over 40 years old? Teacher-student love is essentially an asymmetry in status, and there are significant differences in psychological maturity and life experience. As a teacher, if you like students, you are lacking in teacher ethics. When he noticed her feelings, he should have guided her correctly and helped her put her mind back to her studies. Instead, he fell headlong into it, so no matter how depressed he was in the future, to put it harshly, he had to reap the consequences. Maybe they do have a connection, but what about at least waiting until she graduates? At least it doesn't constitute a teacher-student relationship. I saw someone saying that girls ruined their teachers, and I totally disagree. Emotional matters have always been something that can't be slapped. If he abides by his duties as a teacher, devotes himself to teaching and educating people, and does not have undue thoughts about his students, who can destroy him? (A friend told me that Qiong Yao's parents also had a teacher-student relationship. I was really silent... But I still opposed the teacher-student relationship.)
If "Outside the Window" has taught me something, firstly, the influence of the original family on people is really great, and parents must give their children full love;
Second, teacher-student love is never advisable. It is essentially an imbalance of power. Even if you really want to fall in love, at least wait until it does not constitute a teacher-student relationship;
Third, some people really have two different faces before and after marriage. You must not be easily fooled by the other person's disguise before marriage. Jiang Yanrong and Li Liwei were sweet and happy before their marriage, full of beautiful fantasies and longing for the future. But after marriage, the man reveals his true colors, is sensitive, suspicious, and chauvinistic, and his life is completely messed up. How terrible that the sweet words before marriage and the cold words after marriage all come from the same person.
I often hear colleagues in the office who got married early complaining about their husbands and complaining about their parents-in-law. Maybe they really loved each other before marriage and fully expected to build a happy family, but marriage is not only about love, but also about food, rice, oil, salt, parents' shortcomings, and even chicken feathers. I don't deny that there are happy marriages in the world, but like Mrs. Jiang, I pessimistically believe that marriage is more of a sacrifice than happiness for women. I hope that girls who want to get married can be cautious, don't be fooled by some people's hypocritical appearances, and achieve true happiness.
When I read Qiong Yao's works for the first time, I was greatly shocked, and I began to understand her pivotal position in the literary world.
In the book, the cuteness of the girls, the partiality and severity of the parents, the troubles and sorrows of the girls, the untimely feelings between teachers and students, and the huge contrast before and after marriage are all vividly depicted in the delicate writing style, which can easily arouse readers' empathy. Especially the changes in Li Liwei before and after marriage made me shudder.
What is particularly worth mentioning is that the novel not only describes the plight of women, but also displays a rather advanced female consciousness. Although Mrs. Jiang obstructs Jiang Yanrong's feelings in every possible way, in fact she is also a victim of marriage. "Or he loves me, but he loves me for himself, because losing me is inconvenient for him. He definitely doesn't love me for the sake of loving me!"
She asked Jiang Yanrong to study for a master's degree and a doctorate, and it was best not to get married, thinking that marriage would be a sacrifice for women rather than happiness;
And Jiang Yanruo said she didn't want to be a wife! I want to be Jiang Yanruo! She wants people to know that she is Jiang Yanruo, but not her husband's name! In those days, this was so rare. Even now, many people do not have such awareness and are willing to call themselves Mrs. XX or Mom XX.
In my opinion, "Outside the Window" is not an ordinary romance novel. It would be too shallow to only see the teacher-student love with "three incorrect views". Regardless of whether Qiong Yao intended it or not, it did serve as a warning to me. There are always people who say that reading Qiong Yao's novels will damage your brain. I don't know about other novels, but "Outside the Window" alone made me feel more and more awake as I read them. All in all, recommended reading.
Well written, no wonder it became an instant hit many years ago
Outside the Window is a really good book. I regret that I have never read it. I read it for the first time when I was 40 years old. I marveled at the autobiographical novel that Aunt Qiong Yao wrote when she was 25 years old. Her writing style is extremely talented. This is something that can only be written with hard work. Nine times out of ten, life is not what you want. Love is really not that important. Maybe she has been lacking love since she was a child and cares about love so much. In fact, love needs to be evenly matched, well-matched, and emotionally stable. When you reach middle age, you will find that you are well-matched. The right love can help you on the road of life, the evenly matched one can understand you without consuming you, and the emotionally stable one can support each other and grow together. Of course, this is all cause and effect. Maybe a good marriage is the accumulation of blessings in the previous life, but I advise young children not to get carried away by love and listen to advice. If your parents don't like it, don't marry blindly for love. Your parents eat more salt than you eat. Don't marry or climb high. Neither will be happy. I am grateful for opening this novel accidentally and finished reading it on March 23, 2025.
Outside the window is an unattainable ideal, but inside the window is real life.
I have read every novel by Qiong Yao many years ago. Now that I have listened to it again, I still find it very enjoyable. I want to listen to every novel by Qiong Yao again.
Real and touching
It is full of emotions, and people watching it often cry. It is a pity that the teacher did not wait for love, and it is very sad. Does love really require courage? Is love really difficult to hold on to? Full of regrets...
I read a lot of Qiong Yao's novels when I was studying, but I haven't read them outside the window. Now that I'm reading them again, I'm still quite touched. Jiang Yanrong's love hurt the teacher so badly. How can a man's reason resist this stalking love? Young people can try and make mistakes, but middle-aged people can't afford to make mistakes.
I watched it 20 years ago. I watched it again this time and gained a lot of insights.
Aunt Qiong Yao's works are indeed gripping, soul-stirring, touching, and moving to read. Perhaps few people read her works now, but those of us who are nostalgic, those excellent works will always be classics in our hearts. Have a good trip, Aunt Qiongyao.
The author is a dream girl, perhaps destined to be extraordinary from birth, and it was her birth that made her future dreams come true.
Often bumpy experiences can make a person's life successful. Everyone has a small persistence in their heart. This persistence is a firm belief. This belief is invisible and intangible, but it can make our lives find light in the darkness.
Every family may have a child who "comes out of Japan", and it is this child who has the intention to leave Japan that will become the greatest pride of his parents, even though the process may be difficult.
Being born extraordinary is the best interpretation of "Chu Li". There are foreshadowings everywhere, just like a life destined to be good cannot be modified. Every word is full of sincerity, determination, and romanticism. Life is naturally brilliant, and its splendor will always be reserved for people with fantasy, such as the author, and more dreamy girls.
Marriage is sometimes an arrangement of fate. Even if you try your best, you still can't escape the shackles given to us by the times. In the end, we chose to escape. In a seemingly compromised state, we reluctantly jumped into the arms of a thoroughly ordinary person who seemed to be loved.
Ordinary people love beauty, and it is difficult for ordinary people to understand the sensitivity and delicacy of a person who likes fantasy. He didn't know at all, how could he persist in living without every bit of love? Just like Li Liwei, all he loves is Jiang Yanrong's beauty, he only takes and doesn't give much.
The selfishness of human nature makes people only know what they need, and mistakenly regard their demands as love for others, and they call it the depth of love. The so-called love of asking is a kind of narrowness and cannot be called love. I think only the love of selfless dedication can be called love.
Because of love, we give, because of love, we achieve perfection; because of love, we create beauty, because of love, we create miracles.
January 11, 2025 Xingyue Comments I hope my work will be completed soon.
It is really a terrifying realistic novel, but you need to read it with your brain, don't be led astray, you can see the little girl who was wronged and struggling in despair, how she was led astray, and how she was successfully rescued by her mother! But the mother is not omnipotent. She can save her daughter from a fire pit and prevent her from being crushed, but she cannot save her from every man. She is not an excellent and strong-willed sister. The support she needs can never be found in a patriarchal society!
This novel is really, really good. The reason why the last star of the few high-quality movies on Tomato is not good is because the heroine is cowardly. Although she knows that the heroine has nothing to do, she still feels very sad. After all, it is undeniable that he has caused harm to the teacher, and it should not be above emotions. Not ready to go to him again. His parents obviously had the same experience. But he did this to his teacher. It's disgusting. At the beginning, he didn't care at all, but as soon as he started to care, he wanted to imprison the heroine directly.
Ignorant love makes people desperate. Stumbling around in reality. First love is so beautiful and makes people miss it. As time goes by, everything can only be blown away by the wind.
The love that transcends the world is finally shattered. It would be great if they were really together.
I'm thinking that the heroine's story is the experience of Aunt Qiong Yao.
In the past I had only watched Aunt Qiong Yao's TV shows, including My Fair Princess and Misty Rain. Now that I think about it, I realize that it is really brilliant and well-written. It has made people cry several times and has a strong sense of empathy.
The deepest feeling this book gave me is that our parents define the present based on their life experiences, and believe that their children must be unhappy if they follow the path they have taken. In fact, this is not the case. Yanrong is an emotional person, and time will hardly dilute her love for Kangnan. But Mrs. Jiang destroyed her own daughter and indirectly destroyed a good teacher in the name of love. At the same time, childhood is the most important stage that affects a person's personality and development. This cannot be compensated for. Why Yanrong fell in love with Kangnan was because their parents ignored Yanrong.
When I read the last part of the book, I felt a tightness in my chest that was hard to get rid of. I was afraid that I would cry and read other chapters all the time, but even when I read in fragments, I was still sad enough to want to cry. I consider myself a hard-hearted person, and I won't cry unless I am hurt very much. . . . This is the only book that makes me cry, and it's the kind of book that I can't help but cry after reading it again. The people in it give me a feeling of being miserable but working hard to live. . . . . Although the two people are very suitable for each other, they are only defeated by their age, status and family background... Maybe Yanrong, who is still a girl, doesn't know anything, but Kangnan has already understood that this kind of love will end sooner or later, but he is still so eager and keeps fighting for it. In the end, he can only watch the person he loves leave him, and he has nothing. I really cried to death.
The story is just too sad, but the writing is quite good.
A very beautiful story, with great educational significance and learning value, which benefits people a lot. It has made Qiong Yao and her teacher a success. Although they did not have a good ending, they created a beautiful book. This book tells readers not to fall in love casually, but also tells readers to be brave in love. It is also a classic for now! Recommended reading!
What is true love? Is appreciation love? Kangnan has always been Kangnan, and his talent has always been there, but when the heroine faces Kangnan with a different image, her reaction is different. She could commit suicide for love and for Kangnan if she didn't go to college. But when she saw Kang Nan later, who was stooped and imageless, she would still leave. I'm a little confused, whether she's afraid that it will affect his career again or because she can't accept his current situation. Does she love the man or his talent. How her mother convinced her to give up Kangnan and marry someone else.
I was particularly fond of Qiong Yao's novels when I was young. I bought a complete set of Qiong Yao's books in 1985, and now reading them one by one makes me feel like I'm back in the 1980s! I particularly like Tomato Novels, Changting, and the music version. I listen to it every day! Outside the Window is also the first novel I read by Qiong Yao, it is very touching!
The writing is very good! The psychological description is delicate and nuanced, the characters are distinct, and the plot is compact and reasonable.
This is the first time I have seen a book on Tomato without any typos. It is recognized as a masterpiece and is written by a recognized talented woman. It has rich content, rich language, and well-characterized characters. Many of the descriptions have a strong sense of picture. It is worth reading.
I watched the movie once and read the novel outside the window again. I felt that the novel was even more beautiful. The author's sonorous and powerful writing intoxicated me and made me unable to put it down. The love of the protagonist of the novel feels like he met the right person at the wrong time. There is an age gap of 20 years, and it is a teacher-student love. At that time and maybe now, most parents in China would not accept it. People live in society, and this kind of love is considered by most people to be against common sense. It is difficult for oneself and his family to avoid the influence of other people's judgment. Both protagonists eventually became victims of this incident. Kangnan went to a remote place to teach and lived in embarrassment. Jiang Yanrong's life after marriage was not happy. I think there are two reasons why Jiang Yanrong fell in love with his teacher. First, Jiang Yanrong's literary talent was so outstanding, and Kang Nan was so talented. The two admired each other and had a strong spiritual resonance. The second point is written in the book that Jiang Yanrong did not study well in mathematics, physics and chemistry, had low self-esteem, and did not feel the love of his parents at home. However, he was warmed spiritually and psychologically by Kangnan, and he could not extricate himself from the love. Looking back on Jiang Yanrong's family life, I feel the same way. When I had a fight with my sister or brother, my father would unreasonably think it was my fault. I also felt that I was the least welcome person in the family. I also had bad thoughts about life. Later, my grades got much better, and my father's attitude towards me became much better. I am so ordinary, without Jiang Yanrong's special talent in a certain aspect, I healed those wounds alone in those painful days. After reading this book, I feel that I am not the only one who has had similar painful experiences, which comforts my soul. Now it has become a thing of the past. When I mention it again, the greatest significance may be to treat my own children in the future, understand and care for them, so that they will no longer have the experience I had before. Finally, I must mention that when I read Aunt Qiong Yao's book for the first time, I lamented that Aunt Qiong Yao's writing was so good, her literary skills were high, her thoughts were profound, her insights were unique, and she touched the soul.
I like the outside window. The descriptions are very real and the psychological activities are delicate and touching. At that stage of life, there will be such children who are sensitive and suspicious. In fact, there is nothing wrong with life, it can only end like this. But I hope that the teacher will not lose his love and become depressed because he has gone through the ups and downs of life and should be more open-minded and pursue a new life.
I remember that when I was in middle school, I had a crush on that tall and handsome Chinese teacher, but I never dared to confess it in my dreams. Aunt Qiongyao wrote such a story with ups and downs, lingering and pathos. She is indeed the godmother of romance! Classic works are touching every time you read them.
It is so well written, as expected of everyone, it is unforgettable and has a strong sense of immersion.
After watching Pride and Prejudice, and then North and South, I suddenly wanted to watch some of the better works that mainly focus on emotions. So I read Aunt Qiong Yao's first novel "Outside the Window". Anyway, I really got into it. Although the writing style of the first novel may be a little too simple and straightforward, her dialogues are really well written and are naturally suitable for adaptation into TV series. , Looking at her dialogue, I can imagine the emotional changes of this character when he speaks this dialogue. The writing is really smooth, as if the words are really spoken by this person, unlike when I usually write novels, I feel very incoherent and fake. Then I think her portrayal and description of emotions is really talented. In her debut novel, she can describe the ups and downs of emotions so naturally, and the psychological description of each person is also very delicate and true. It's a teacher-student love, and it's the kind of teacher-student love with a big age difference, but you can understand why they are attracted to each other, and then you can also know that they are not relying on each other because of temptation as mentioned in the comments or because of their own immaturity, or an illusion caused by lack of love. I think they are really soul mates and really understand each other. When they are together, you don't want to notice their age difference at all, because when they talk, it feels like two unreserved hearts are in contact. In addition to the love part, the heroine's family, thoughts, life, and friendship are also painted a lot. I feel that there are many shadows of the author himself. Anyway, I think his parents, his brothers and sisters, I am really impressed. It's like you can't seem to feel their love, but you can't help but admit that they love you. It's just this kind of feeling that resonates with me.
Missing Qiong Yao, I read this work again. Great master of love, thank you for allowing us to experience the various tastes of love in your books. You are as beautiful as snowflakes, crystal clear, and melt like snowflakes. I wish you all the best in heaven, love each other and connect with those who love you.
My heart felt heavy after reading this! The tragedy caused by excessive interference from her parents made Qiong Yao's literary career possible!
This forbidden love, based on Qiong Yao's first love, is destined to be a love tragedy that ends without a problem. The birth of this forbidden love was largely caused by the partiality and excessive harshness of Jiang Yanrong's parents. Jiang Yanrong could not feel the love of her parents and suffered repeated setbacks in her studies. When someone with outstanding talents, understanding and care for her appeared, she would naturally fall into it. And when the Jiang family's parents realized this relationship and discovered that they had unshirkable responsibilities, no matter how much they did, they would only make up for it. If he had given her enough love from the beginning, Jiang Yanrong might not have been so in love with Kangnan. For Jiang Yanrong, Kang Nan may be more dependent, comforted, and a piece of driftwood to hold onto when drowning than love. Meeting someone who can give you love when you are lacking it is a fatal feeling. I can understand that Jiang Yanrong would like Kangnan. But in my opinion, Kang Nan's romantic feelings for Jiang Yanrong are completely inappropriate. Little girls are not sensible. Do you still understand when you are over 40 years old? Teacher-student love is essentially an asymmetry in status, and there are significant differences in psychological maturity and life experience. As a teacher, if you like students, you are lacking in teacher ethics. When he noticed her feelings, he should have guided her correctly and helped her put her mind back to her studies. Instead, he fell headlong into it, so no matter how depressed he was in the future, to put it harshly, he had to reap the consequences. Maybe they do have a connection, but what about at least waiting until she graduates? At least it doesn't constitute a teacher-student relationship. I saw someone saying that girls ruined their teachers, and I totally disagree. Emotional matters have always been something that can't be slapped. If he abides by his duties as a teacher, devotes himself to teaching and educating people, and does not have undue thoughts about his students, who can destroy him? (A friend told me that Qiong Yao's parents also had a teacher-student relationship. I was really silent... But I still opposed the teacher-student relationship.) If "Outside the Window" has taught me something, firstly, the influence of the original family on people is really great, and parents must give their children full love; Second, teacher-student love is never advisable. It is essentially an imbalance of power. Even if you really want to fall in love, at least wait until it does not constitute a teacher-student relationship; Third, some people really have two different faces before and after marriage. You must not be easily fooled by the other person's disguise before marriage. Jiang Yanrong and Li Liwei were sweet and happy before their marriage, full of beautiful fantasies and longing for the future. But after marriage, the man reveals his true colors, is sensitive, suspicious, and chauvinistic, and his life is completely messed up. How terrible that the sweet words before marriage and the cold words after marriage all come from the same person. I often hear colleagues in the office who got married early complaining about their husbands and complaining about their parents-in-law. Maybe they really loved each other before marriage and fully expected to build a happy family, but marriage is not only about love, but also about food, rice, oil, salt, parents' shortcomings, and even chicken feathers. I don't deny that there are happy marriages in the world, but like Mrs. Jiang, I pessimistically believe that marriage is more of a sacrifice than happiness for women. I hope that girls who want to get married can be cautious, don't be fooled by some people's hypocritical appearances, and achieve true happiness. When I read Qiong Yao's works for the first time, I was greatly shocked, and I began to understand her pivotal position in the literary world. In the book, the cuteness of the girls, the partiality and severity of the parents, the troubles and sorrows of the girls, the untimely feelings between teachers and students, and the huge contrast before and after marriage are all vividly depicted in the delicate writing style, which can easily arouse readers' empathy. Especially the changes in Li Liwei before and after marriage made me shudder. What is particularly worth mentioning is that the novel not only describes the plight of women, but also displays a rather advanced female consciousness. Although Mrs. Jiang obstructs Jiang Yanrong's feelings in every possible way, in fact she is also a victim of marriage. "Or he loves me, but he loves me for himself, because losing me is inconvenient for him. He definitely doesn't love me for the sake of loving me!" She asked Jiang Yanrong to study for a master's degree and a doctorate, and it was best not to get married, thinking that marriage would be a sacrifice for women rather than happiness; And Jiang Yanruo said she didn't want to be a wife! I want to be Jiang Yanruo! She wants people to know that she is Jiang Yanruo, but not her husband's name! In those days, this was so rare. Even now, many people do not have such awareness and are willing to call themselves Mrs. XX or Mom XX. In my opinion, "Outside the Window" is not an ordinary romance novel. It would be too shallow to only see the teacher-student love with "three incorrect views". Regardless of whether Qiong Yao intended it or not, it did serve as a warning to me. There are always people who say that reading Qiong Yao's novels will damage your brain. I don't know about other novels, but "Outside the Window" alone made me feel more and more awake as I read them. All in all, recommended reading.
Well written, no wonder it became an instant hit many years ago
Outside the Window is a really good book. I regret that I have never read it. I read it for the first time when I was 40 years old. I marveled at the autobiographical novel that Aunt Qiong Yao wrote when she was 25 years old. Her writing style is extremely talented. This is something that can only be written with hard work. Nine times out of ten, life is not what you want. Love is really not that important. Maybe she has been lacking love since she was a child and cares about love so much. In fact, love needs to be evenly matched, well-matched, and emotionally stable. When you reach middle age, you will find that you are well-matched. The right love can help you on the road of life, the evenly matched one can understand you without consuming you, and the emotionally stable one can support each other and grow together. Of course, this is all cause and effect. Maybe a good marriage is the accumulation of blessings in the previous life, but I advise young children not to get carried away by love and listen to advice. If your parents don't like it, don't marry blindly for love. Your parents eat more salt than you eat. Don't marry or climb high. Neither will be happy. I am grateful for opening this novel accidentally and finished reading it on March 23, 2025.
Outside the window is an unattainable ideal, but inside the window is real life.
I have read every novel by Qiong Yao many years ago. Now that I have listened to it again, I still find it very enjoyable. I want to listen to every novel by Qiong Yao again. Real and touching
It is full of emotions, and people watching it often cry. It is a pity that the teacher did not wait for love, and it is very sad. Does love really require courage? Is love really difficult to hold on to? Full of regrets...
I read a lot of Qiong Yao's novels when I was studying, but I haven't read them outside the window. Now that I'm reading them again, I'm still quite touched. Jiang Yanrong's love hurt the teacher so badly. How can a man's reason resist this stalking love? Young people can try and make mistakes, but middle-aged people can't afford to make mistakes.
I watched it 20 years ago. I watched it again this time and gained a lot of insights.
Aunt Qiong Yao's works are indeed gripping, soul-stirring, touching, and moving to read. Perhaps few people read her works now, but those of us who are nostalgic, those excellent works will always be classics in our hearts. Have a good trip, Aunt Qiongyao.
The author is a dream girl, perhaps destined to be extraordinary from birth, and it was her birth that made her future dreams come true. Often bumpy experiences can make a person's life successful. Everyone has a small persistence in their heart. This persistence is a firm belief. This belief is invisible and intangible, but it can make our lives find light in the darkness. Every family may have a child who "comes out of Japan", and it is this child who has the intention to leave Japan that will become the greatest pride of his parents, even though the process may be difficult. Being born extraordinary is the best interpretation of "Chu Li". There are foreshadowings everywhere, just like a life destined to be good cannot be modified. Every word is full of sincerity, determination, and romanticism. Life is naturally brilliant, and its splendor will always be reserved for people with fantasy, such as the author, and more dreamy girls. Marriage is sometimes an arrangement of fate. Even if you try your best, you still can't escape the shackles given to us by the times. In the end, we chose to escape. In a seemingly compromised state, we reluctantly jumped into the arms of a thoroughly ordinary person who seemed to be loved. Ordinary people love beauty, and it is difficult for ordinary people to understand the sensitivity and delicacy of a person who likes fantasy. He didn't know at all, how could he persist in living without every bit of love? Just like Li Liwei, all he loves is Jiang Yanrong's beauty, he only takes and doesn't give much. The selfishness of human nature makes people only know what they need, and mistakenly regard their demands as love for others, and they call it the depth of love. The so-called love of asking is a kind of narrowness and cannot be called love. I think only the love of selfless dedication can be called love. Because of love, we give, because of love, we achieve perfection; because of love, we create beauty, because of love, we create miracles. January 11, 2025 Xingyue Comments I hope my work will be completed soon.
It is really a terrifying realistic novel, but you need to read it with your brain, don't be led astray, you can see the little girl who was wronged and struggling in despair, how she was led astray, and how she was successfully rescued by her mother! But the mother is not omnipotent. She can save her daughter from a fire pit and prevent her from being crushed, but she cannot save her from every man. She is not an excellent and strong-willed sister. The support she needs can never be found in a patriarchal society!
This novel is really, really good. The reason why the last star of the few high-quality movies on Tomato is not good is because the heroine is cowardly. Although she knows that the heroine has nothing to do, she still feels very sad. After all, it is undeniable that he has caused harm to the teacher, and it should not be above emotions. Not ready to go to him again. His parents obviously had the same experience. But he did this to his teacher. It's disgusting. At the beginning, he didn't care at all, but as soon as he started to care, he wanted to imprison the heroine directly.
Ignorant love makes people desperate. Stumbling around in reality. First love is so beautiful and makes people miss it. As time goes by, everything can only be blown away by the wind.
The love that transcends the world is finally shattered. It would be great if they were really together. I'm thinking that the heroine's story is the experience of Aunt Qiong Yao.
In the past I had only watched Aunt Qiong Yao's TV shows, including My Fair Princess and Misty Rain. Now that I think about it, I realize that it is really brilliant and well-written. It has made people cry several times and has a strong sense of empathy.
The deepest feeling this book gave me is that our parents define the present based on their life experiences, and believe that their children must be unhappy if they follow the path they have taken. In fact, this is not the case. Yanrong is an emotional person, and time will hardly dilute her love for Kangnan. But Mrs. Jiang destroyed her own daughter and indirectly destroyed a good teacher in the name of love. At the same time, childhood is the most important stage that affects a person's personality and development. This cannot be compensated for. Why Yanrong fell in love with Kangnan was because their parents ignored Yanrong.
When I read the last part of the book, I felt a tightness in my chest that was hard to get rid of. I was afraid that I would cry and read other chapters all the time, but even when I read in fragments, I was still sad enough to want to cry. I consider myself a hard-hearted person, and I won't cry unless I am hurt very much. . . . This is the only book that makes me cry, and it's the kind of book that I can't help but cry after reading it again. The people in it give me a feeling of being miserable but working hard to live. . . . . Although the two people are very suitable for each other, they are only defeated by their age, status and family background... Maybe Yanrong, who is still a girl, doesn't know anything, but Kangnan has already understood that this kind of love will end sooner or later, but he is still so eager and keeps fighting for it. In the end, he can only watch the person he loves leave him, and he has nothing. I really cried to death.
The story is just too sad, but the writing is quite good.
A very beautiful story, with great educational significance and learning value, which benefits people a lot. It has made Qiong Yao and her teacher a success. Although they did not have a good ending, they created a beautiful book. This book tells readers not to fall in love casually, but also tells readers to be brave in love. It is also a classic for now! Recommended reading!
What is true love? Is appreciation love? Kangnan has always been Kangnan, and his talent has always been there, but when the heroine faces Kangnan with a different image, her reaction is different. She could commit suicide for love and for Kangnan if she didn't go to college. But when she saw Kang Nan later, who was stooped and imageless, she would still leave. I'm a little confused, whether she's afraid that it will affect his career again or because she can't accept his current situation. Does she love the man or his talent. How her mother convinced her to give up Kangnan and marry someone else.
I was particularly fond of Qiong Yao's novels when I was young. I bought a complete set of Qiong Yao's books in 1985, and now reading them one by one makes me feel like I'm back in the 1980s! I particularly like Tomato Novels, Changting, and the music version. I listen to it every day! Outside the Window is also the first novel I read by Qiong Yao, it is very touching!
The writing is very good! The psychological description is delicate and nuanced, the characters are distinct, and the plot is compact and reasonable.